Self-Bondage Ideas Thread 18+
Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2025 5:43 pm
As someone who enjoys tying myself up and trying to escape, I wanted to make this thread for people to share their ideas for how self-bondsge enthusiasts and escape artists could tie themselves, and for those who try said suggestions to report back about their attempt.
An example Bondage Challenge:
(Requires rope, locks, and some form of lockable cuffs)
Tie a chest harness with rope, making sure the knot that finishes the harness is on your front. Then tie your ankles with rope cross so your legs make an ‘x’. Run the extra ankle rope (or a new rope) up and loop it around your chest harness. Pull the rope backwards until your legs are bent back in a hogtie position, then reach your arms back and tie off the rope down as close your ankles as possible. Finish by cuffing your hands in handcuffs or wrist cuffs behind your back, making sure to lock the cuffs to your rope harness to prevent you from moving them down far enough to untie the ankle knot.
An example Escape Report
(Replying to the above suggestion)
I tied myself pretty tight and quickly realized this position wouldn't be one I could stay in for too long. That said, it was a very fun and restrictive way to be tied. It took me a while to get free, but I eventually managed to stretch far enough to touch the knot at my ankles. I had to really stretch and struggle for a bit, but I eventually got my ankles untied and was able to stretch out, stand up, and walk over to the cuff keys.
Or
This one stumped me. I kept trying to reach my ankles but my arms couldn't get far enough down since they were hooked so high up on the harness. I struggled on the floor for awhile until eventually my gf had to come and release me.
Stipulations
It should go without saying - be safe. It is best to have someone nearby who will let you out if you can't get free. Alternatively some sort of failsafe - like nearby keys or scissors that you will only use in case of a complete escape failure - make alone play slightly safer, but are still very risky.
Because self bodnage (even done with safety measures) poses inherent risks, this thread is going to be for adults only .
When giving suggestions, give ones that require as little extra help as possible. The goal is for us to be able to challenge each other to escape challenges and share self bondage ideas and share our results.
An example Bondage Challenge:
(Requires rope, locks, and some form of lockable cuffs)
Tie a chest harness with rope, making sure the knot that finishes the harness is on your front. Then tie your ankles with rope cross so your legs make an ‘x’. Run the extra ankle rope (or a new rope) up and loop it around your chest harness. Pull the rope backwards until your legs are bent back in a hogtie position, then reach your arms back and tie off the rope down as close your ankles as possible. Finish by cuffing your hands in handcuffs or wrist cuffs behind your back, making sure to lock the cuffs to your rope harness to prevent you from moving them down far enough to untie the ankle knot.
An example Escape Report
(Replying to the above suggestion)
I tied myself pretty tight and quickly realized this position wouldn't be one I could stay in for too long. That said, it was a very fun and restrictive way to be tied. It took me a while to get free, but I eventually managed to stretch far enough to touch the knot at my ankles. I had to really stretch and struggle for a bit, but I eventually got my ankles untied and was able to stretch out, stand up, and walk over to the cuff keys.
Or
This one stumped me. I kept trying to reach my ankles but my arms couldn't get far enough down since they were hooked so high up on the harness. I struggled on the floor for awhile until eventually my gf had to come and release me.
Stipulations
It should go without saying - be safe. It is best to have someone nearby who will let you out if you can't get free. Alternatively some sort of failsafe - like nearby keys or scissors that you will only use in case of a complete escape failure - make alone play slightly safer, but are still very risky.
Because self bodnage (even done with safety measures) poses inherent risks, this thread is going to be for adults only .
When giving suggestions, give ones that require as little extra help as possible. The goal is for us to be able to challenge each other to escape challenges and share self bondage ideas and share our results.