Question for straight dudes

[mikeybound]

Would yo tie/be tied by another guy? And if so, what’s the appeal for you?

[RotiferTape]

Not to get into any major details, but as an asexual I was open to anyone tying me up. Unfortunately, due to a bad experience with a man I’ve strongly preferred women bondage partners since then, as I have never felt unsafe with them. The only times I’ve been tied by a male recently is when it was a couple, either both were tying me up or he would tie me but his girlfriend will still be in the room. I haven’t completely sworn off male bondage partners, but it’s pretty rare for me to let myself get tied by them.

[Terry]

Asexual and only ever want to be tied by other guys

[tiedinbluetights]

The key, for me at least, is that being tied-up or tying-up is NOT about sex nor sexual titillation (for me at least--worth repeating).

So yeah, I would let another guy, a friend, that I totally trusted to not cross any boundaries, nor even push them, to tie me up. When I was a kid, this happend often with my male cousins, as only us boys ever played tie-up games regularly, our sisters/female-cousins prefered non-'binding' games.

But since I am happily married, I've only ever played with my wife over the past few decades. And yes, even with her, it is most of the time non-sexual.

In essence, even now, as an adult (repeating myself, I know), it is NOT about sex nor sexual titillation. Just because it can be sometimes with the right partners and right chemistry between partners, it does not mean it has to be. If the game (tie-up) itself is what is import to me, so long as my captor is a caring individual, sworn to keep me safe, and vice-versa if I'm the captor (but I'd make a poor switch, too eager to get my turn to get tied-up), then 'straightness' and all other gender dynamics are not relevant to me so long as the game remains asexual.

[Racer]

Sure I’ll let another guy tie me up. My wife and I are into hotwife/cuckold games, and when we play this game, the Bull (her ex. boyfriend) ties me up. He’s very dominant, and love tying up others, so for us it’s quite natural. I have only had good experiences with it.

[shyguy92]

As long as it's someone I trust I've never had a problem with it. Prefer it, really. Hard to explain why. Maybe because with another guy it can stay friendly whereas with a woman it seems like it would often turn sexual (though I don't have any experience to base this on.)

Granted I've recently come to the conclusion that I may not be 100% straight. Still that more than anything else, but...

[Knotted]

I only did bondage with girls in real life, so the thought of being tied up by a guy in real life hasn't really crossed my mind.
However, I had some RPs also with a M/m scenario, and I have to admit that this was also very hot, so I kinda bet that a situation in real life similar to that would arise, there would be a clear reaction. But as I'm in a relationship, I probably won't find out

[mmmph]

I am straight but prefer bondage with males. In my experience a lot of guys into bondage are like that, for whatever reason: they are into women sexually and romantically but are also willing to play bondage games with men that may or may not involve sexual contact.

[RopedCowboy]

I'm straight and primarily interested in DiD but if I was totally honest I'd only want to be tied up by a male if they were gay as I quite like the idea of them getting a bit of a thrill out of it, although that's about as far as I'd want it to go

I definitely harboured fantasies of being tied up by basically anyone when I was younger but mostly it was in a fictional setting, so I imagined (and still do) being tied up at scouts, playing cowboys and Indians or maybe by a creepy male neighbour after smashing his window with a soccer ball etc, butI realise this generally falls outside the main areas of interest on this forum.

I've experimented with creating a few Daz3d pictures featuring young male snoops in peril too but generally only post m/f art on here

[MaxRoper]

First, it's much easier to find men who want to play rope games, so unless one is dead set against playing with boys, M/M action is much more likely to actually happen.

Second, edging is one of my favorite games and I've found that men are much better at that game since they have a better understanding of the way male equipment responds.

I'm certainly not 100% straight, so this answer may fall outside the requested guidelines.

[Ducttape1234]

I'm straight and I wouldn't mind that at all. Growing up I had been duct taped by my brother's (on separate occasions) and once or twice been taped up by a male friend. We were just kids back then but I still enjoyed it. As long as I trust the person tying me, that's all that matters to me

[nm101]

Straight guy here and I have tied up one of my gay friends before. Nothing too fancy, just bondage tape with his hands behind him and ankles tied, then another time his wrists tied to the head of the bed and his ankles and thighs tied together with tape. Both times I tickled him, it didn't do as much for me as I thought, I'd prefer having a woman tied to tickle but he really enjoyed it and said I'm a great dom and tickler, though I didn't get him for as long as I initially intended.

On the other side of that, I'm curious about being tied by another guy, I imagine I'd feel even more helpless and defeated since I'd prefer a woman tying me. Then any torture he inflicts on me would be even worse since I wouldn't be getting as turned on. On top of that I'd want to be the prisoner of one or more guys who have me securely bound and imprisoned for me to be rescued by a beautiful woman, a guy in distress instead of a damsel in distress.

[meacham6]

I'd consider myself straight, bicurious at most, but I'd like to be tied up by a guy. I think the power dynamic would be more believable, and there's that nervous feeling in knowing that he can do whatever he wants once you're bound.

[ShyTiedBoyReturns]

I struggled with this for a while tbh bc I have zero attraction to men but since I was young I always had fantasies about being stripped and tied up by a guy. For me it’s really the humiliation of of being exposed and helpless in front of someone I’m not attracted to but maybe who’s attracted to me or just wants to mock and taunt me.

[makeititght]

I used to mind being tied up by a guy. I never imagined myself in that scenario. Overtime though I stop caring about it less and less and switched sides. Having a sense of hopelessness while being tied is thrilling.

[captured_prize]

I have been tied by another guy, with both of us being straight men. If no intimacy is involved, it really doesn't matter what gender ties me up. The one thing I like about a guy tying me up is the fact that a kidnapper is more likely to be male, so it adds a little bit of realism to a scene.

[jacktiedup]

I consider myself straight and I'd do it. There is something hot about being overpowered

[Niceandtight31]

Also straight but I love the power dynamic of being tied up by another male so I'd definitely be open to it

[bound773]

I know I should probably put this in the story section but I don't really want to get into that kind of detail. Sometimes explaining something takes a while so this may be a long winded posting but it eventually explains a perspective of male/male bondage.

I thought I was straight as an arrow till I was about 32. I loved seeing women bound and gagged and enacting tie up games and kidnap role-play during sex if they were into it. I'd say only 1 out of 3 women I ever had sexual encounters with were into a second bondage experience let alone a first one. I can't say I have ever been part of an "asexual" bondage experience with a woman in my life. Sometime in my late 20's I had a few experiences where female friends wanted to tie me up. It was semi-enjoyable but not realistic enough to be erotic. I was also very Dom with these women already and they looked so good bound and gagged that changing the power dynamic just wasn't happening for me.

Around 30 I had a girlfriend who let me tie her up but was very keen to be in control early on. I wasn't as attracted to her as much as I loved her company and her outward sexuality. She was very into giving and receiving pleasure. She was also not small or skinny like my previous partners. She actually could put up a fight. The first time she wanted to tie me up I gave in at the beginning to let her get started but thought I would flip it around on her after a while. She did her homework. She had enough strength and weight behind her that once my hands were bound she actually did have control.

She had a hard time getting the ballgag in my mouth so she just clamped her hand over my mouth and looked me in the eyes for a good 90 seconds. That is the exact moment I knew I was not 100% dominate. I could not believe how erotic it felt and how out of the blue I found myself following her commands. She told me to "shut up" and just kept eye contact with me. She told me "Open your mouth and take the gag." And I did. After that I had the best sex with her that we ever had.

But I was somehow ashamed I think. It was a good month or two before I let her do that to me again. She guessed that I wasn't that into it but in reality it was all I could think about. In my head I was not about to be her bitch but I masturbated about it every night we weren't together. She finally just decided she wanted to do it again and was going to push to see if I would relent. My roommate was out for the weekend and I walked out of the shower naked to get dressed thinking we were heading out for the evening. She was in the kitchen and followed me into the bedroom with a roll of duct tape.

I looked at her with surprise and she could probably tell I wasn't going to tell her no. She told me to lie on the bed face down. I did. She taped my wrists together then rolled me over on my back. She pulled a sock out of my drawer and told me "Open your mouth" while holding my jaw still with her left hand. She stuffed the sock all the way into my mouth and taped my mouth shut with three strips of tape. She wasn't as obsessed with bondage as I was to know, a few strips of tape over a mouth will eventually come loose with sweat. I was surprised that it kept me gagged for the 5 mins it needed to. She pulled me up right so I was sitting on the edge of the bed and gave me the best head I have ever gotten in my life. I still think about to this day. I even remember looking her in the eyes as she pulled the tape off my mouth. She had a bit of sympathy that it hurt a bit.

For stupid reasons we didn't last longer than a year. We stayed friends for a few months but the sexual tension was not good for her new relationship so we slowly stopped talking. Before the end of our conversations I had to ask her "Where did you find out how to tie me up like that?" She just responded, "I did all the things you did to me." She also let me know that by not clearing my browser history she didn't have to search very far for the pictures and videos I would watch. She had a lot of gay male friends at work. She told them all about our sexual stories and all the porn that I looked at. They guided her and gave her advice. I had no idea.

After that, even though I was still having sex with women I thought about being tied up and gagged. I started to think about it all the time. I thought about it more than I did tying up women or seeing women tied up. When I did look for women in bondage I would see them and start to imagine myself in their place. I still do that to this day. Eventually it occurred to me that unless I was going to pay for a professional, the only way I was going to find myself in bondage was from a man that enjoys tying up other men.

So I sought out my own asexual bondage experiences. I did that for a good year. I found some men that would oblige, but more often than not, there were men who had no interest in bondage. They were men who wanted to play with a straight guy. After a while, I gave in to that. It in fact fueled the abduction aspect of what I love about bondage anyway. And 15 years later I can safely say I am bisexual when it comes to sex and bondage. I am still very much attracted to women and would love to find another woman like that old girlfriend of mine. It has just proven to be easier to find men to put me in bondage. Less so the older I get, but still easier.


I know this was a very long post but I guess I just wanted to put it out there. I can't say that I understand what "asexual" bondage is. Everytime a man respected my wishes and just kept me bound and watched me for an hour, I was dying to cum the whole time. After a few of those sessions I started to scream from behind my gag, "Make me cum." That lead to so many great sessions with older gentlemen in their late 50's and 60's that enjoyed keeping me tied and gagged while they milked me. One man in particular that miss very much that I should write a few stories about the things he did to me.


I guess this is just my experience, but I think as a man, once you start playing bondage games with men it's hard not to think some sort of gay experience with them will happen. I didn't want it to happen when I started but it did. Bondage is part of my sexuality. I love being in bondage when the sex is not occurring but eventually I will crave sex during bondage. I am surprised that people would feel differently but we are all different I suppose.

[HandgaggedShut]

Personally, as I've said elsewhere, I have no issues being tied up by or with a guy, even as a straight guy.

For me, the helplessness of the bondage is only increased if i'm tied/teased/stripped etc by a guy as it would normally be a woman I'd want to do that with, if the bondage weren't keeping me there.

So i think for me its the combination of the bondage and the captor that really go together.

[gaggedrock29]

I'm straight and fine with being tied up by another guy. My biggest bondage fantasy would actually take a couple of big burly guys to execute

[BachelorInDistress]

I probably wouldn't find it sexy but it sounds fun nonetheless, so i'm not categorically opposed.

[illest]

Under normal circumstances it'd be a hard no. When I crossdress and in the moment of I'd be more willing to give it a go, but more for the humiliation aspect than having any attraction to the actual guy. I'd definitely prefer a woman or women though.

[Adammn85]

Id be open to being bound by a guy. Being helpless appeals to me so gender does not really matter to me.

[WrappedUp]

Male on male bondage is a big fantasy for me that developed slowly overtime.

I am straight and don't really feel attraction for men, however I am turned on by a submissive male and the idea of being dominated by someone older. If this makes me a bit bicurious, so be it. One of my biggest fantasies is being kidnapped by an older man and being made into his bondage slave. I can also get down with the idea of tying up another guy and dominating him especially if he's short and a big feminine. Someone I can force crossdress.

An older man dominating me excites me greatly, to feel truly helpless and overpowered by him and made to do whatever he wants me to. This fantasy first crept into my head when I was 15 and it felt so wrong and dirty. It would appear now and then until I embraced it and realized it was part of my kinky identity. I enjoy looking at bound men and watching videos of M/M, although it is hard for me to find ones I truly enjoy.

In reality I wouldn't actually do it, even when I was single I can't imagine that ever happening. There is a small part of me that thinks I might of liked to have atleast one bondage experience with a guy though, but I'm really not sure. Instead I live that out through the occasion RP or story. So deep down there has to be something in me that longs for it.