Longest time…

[guardian741]

Hey all,
I thought it might be fun to share how long you’ve experienced each of the following (feel free to pick and choose). Feel free to add a detail about the experience - or to add to the list!

…tied to a bed?
…hogtied?
…chairtied?

…ball gagged?
…clean sock-gagged?
…dirty sock-gagged?
…tape gagged?

…used as a foot stool?
…intimately teased?
…left alone to suffer?


I’ll go:

Tied to bed - about 20mins. I quickly learned to prefer a hogtie.
Hogtied - 40 mins. My wife’s go-to when we decide its time to tie me up
Chair tied - never!

Ball-gagged - never!
Dirty sock gag - 40 minutes. Have only been gagged with my wife’s. Just unpleasant enough to add to the helplessness.

Used as a foot stool - 60 mins. My wife was in law school and needed to study, i wanted to be tied… she decided resting her feet in my face while she studied was the best compromise.

Left alone - only 2-3 mins. We’re very safe with our games, but the two mins she was gone to talk on the phone while i was bound and gagged in the next room was very exciting!

[illest]

…tied to a bed? About 20 minutes. Wife did so on our anniversary.
…hogtied? Hours. My go-to for self bondage.
…chairtied? Probably over a hour. I've had a few self bondage sessions like that and my cousin used to tie me to a chair with blankets growing up. One of the more comfortable ties so I'm usually in chill mode when tied like that.

…ball gagged? 30 minutes. 2-inch ballgags are my fab but they become hell on the jaws after 20 minutes.
…clean sock-gagged? About a hour.
…dirty sock-gagged? I usually just do clean, but maybe a few minutes at the most.
…tape gagged? Iirc a few hours. Mouth stuffed tape gags and wrap gags used to be my fav until I started purchasing other gags from Sub Shop and Amazon.

…used as a foot stool? Never but wanted to.
…intimately teased? About 5 minutes.
…left alone to suffer? Counting self bondage a lot. Not counting self bondage probably never. I think my cousin did tie me in the closet for a little bit once growing up.

[Switchboard]

…tied to a bed? -3 Hours, during a self-bondage session. I was living in the basement at the time and the crossbeams were wonderful to suspend myself from.
…hogtied? -Never, though I'm certainly interested to try it.
…chairtied? -1 hour, it's nice but unless your partner really knows what they're doing it's pretty easily escapable.

…ball gagged? -3 hours. I heard that being gagged long-term was uncomfortable but I think I needed a bigger gag... The uncontrollable drool was nice though!
…clean sock-gagged? -never. Dirty socks or no socks for me.
…dirty sock-gagged? -5 hours. I was hoping I'd get more taste out of them but the harsh reality is that eventually, cloth just kind of borks your taste buds. That being said, it's still nice to know you've got someone's dirty sock in your mouth! It may not live up to my greatest fantasies but it's still my favorite.
…tape gagged? -5 minutes. The tape gets sweaty and just comes off. My least favorite gag type by far.

…used as a foot stool? -Not yet, but very excited to try!
…intimately teased? -30 minutes. I've only had tied up sexual encounters a handful of times and they've been on the shorter side. Hoping for longer eventually though!
…left alone to suffer? -3 hours, once again my self-bondage escapade. I do look forward to a time when I can spend more time tied up with a partner though!

[guardian741]

Awesome! Jealous of you guys! Especially the 5 hour sock gag! Are your captors typically men or women?

[copperfox]

…tied to a bed? 3 hours with leather cuffs in a a spread eagle (one of my favorite positions!)
…hogtied? 3 hours with leather cuffs (my other favorite position)
…chairtied? Never! Seems like a fun position, just never tried. If I ever had the space and money, those extreme bondage chairs look amazing!

…ball gagged? 1.5 hours maybe? I have a 1.75” ball gag and I my mouth starts to get sore after an hour or so.
…clean sock-gagged? Never!
…dirty sock-gagged? Never! (Clean or dirty, I just can’t get past the idea that little bits of sock could come off, or the material would just be annoying in my mouth…maybe I should give it a try though!)
…tape gagged? Never

…used as a foot stool? Maybe 5 minutes back in college. Not kink-related really, though they knew I was enjoying it. (still have a picture)
…intimately teased? Just a couple minutes at a time. I don’t think I like being ticked or teased as much, though TBH I haven’t really asked for it.
…left alone to suffer? An hour or so between coming in the room to checks, if my wife is in the other room. Otherwise, 3 hours when she’s in the bedroom reading or watching TV and I’m just on the floor.

[Kishi]

…tied to a bed? 10 hours. Spread eagled overnight to sleep. Got really boring after not too long lol.
…chairtied? ~16 hours. It was just a normal chair, but I was duct tape mummified to it. Relentless teasing, tickling, and breath play.
…hogtied? About 72 hours. Varying degrees of tightness, lots of adjustments and whatnot, but I was never not hogtied, gagged, and blindfolded. Being manhandled and tossed around like a ragdoll was really fun. The tube-feedings and pissing in a cup, less so. Literally every single part of my body was sore as hell for days.
…suspended? 5-6 hours. It was a pretty extreme hogtie-ish position, and the ropes started chafing me pretty badly, so it couldn’t last too too long. I felt so weightless while it lasted though. It was wonderful.
…strappado? 16 hours. He wanted to see if I could handle it all night. I said bring it on. Tears were shed.

…ball gagged? 4 hours. They’re fun but kind of ineffective.
…clean sock-gagged? Maybe 2 hours? Experimenting before realizing this would be way more fun if they were filthy lol.
…dirty sock-gagged? 72 hours. A tube and funnel/bag means you can be force fed without ever having to be ungagged. The filth taste did peter out disappointingly quickly. but it started to feel more natural than being free by the time the first day had passed. Really heavily helped keep me in that humiliating, almost subhuman/animalistic headspace.
…tape gagged? 8 hours, assuming this means without any mouth stuffing.
…dirty underwear-gagged? 16-20 hours. I mean “dirty” as in sweat and musk, not the other thing. The humiliation is even heavier than socks for me. It was supposed to be a session all about ‘punishment’ but it was anything but for a shameless masochist like me lol.

…used as a foot stool? 4 or 5 hours. We watched a movie or two “together” (I was blindfolded and earplugged, wtf).
…intimately teased? ~4-8 hours. Much longer if breaks are allowed. I love being edged.
…left alone to suffer? ~48 hours. I was obviously being idly monitored, but it was nonstop full bondage, gag, total sensory deprivation, and no acknowledgment whatsoever (outside of occasionally being fed). Holy shit it was amazing. Reached some genuinely soul-crushing depths of despair and desperation. I almost felt kinda proud of myself at the end? I really want to do it again, for longer.

[Racer]

…tied to a bed?
…hogtied? Have been hogtied by my wife and her ex for about 1 hour.
…chairtied? Have been chairtied with my hands behind by my wifes ex for 2 and a half hour.

…ball gagged?
…clean sock-gagged?
…dirty sock-gagged? Have been gagged with my wifes slouch socks for 1 hour. And her ex’s Nike Crew socks for 2 and a half hour.
…tape gagged?

…used as a foot stool?
…intimately teased?
…left alone to suffer? Have Been left tied to a three for about 1 hour.

[tiedinbluetights]

• tied to a bed? Just under 8 hours
• hogtied? About 15 to 20 minutes.
• chairtied? About 90 minutes or so.

• ball gagged? At most 30 minutes.
• clean sock-gagged? I cannot recall ever being gagged with clean socks
• dirty sock-gagged? About 2 hours.
• tape gagged? Also about 2 hours (those socks need to get changed!)

• used as a foot stool? About 15 to 20 minutes.
• intimately teased? Hard to tell; probably 30 minutes or so. Time flows differently in subspace.
• left alone to suffer?
  Likewise, also difficult to ascertain. I know that why wife is actually always monitroing me somehow even when she leaves the room. One of my favourite mind-games she plays on me is having me belive she has left the room, and when I least expect it, feeling her teasing hands caress my body. Makes me "jolt" against my bonds every time We always play RACK and also aware of our growing limitations as we age together