Missed bondage opportunites

[hogtiedhostage2318]

Anyone ever had opportunities where someone could have tied you up and you turned it dow or did not realize you had a potential opportunity? I remember a conversation with a female co-worker older lesbian woman who was open to hear about my kinks and would flirt with me and when I was a kid at a friend's house where we joked about taping each other up with a bunch of other guys

[Redman]

Oh man, there have been SO many over the years. I think it was because I felt awkward about my interest and considered TUGS a private thing. Even as a child and young teen, that was my view. I can distinctly remember a game of Capture The Flag at summer camp when I was 11 or 12 and somebody pulled out some ropes for the people in "jail." I literally stopped playing and went to the nurse's station with a "stomachache." The game was over for me, because I simply could not do it publicly. What a wasted opportunity!

[Detective-Gag]

There was a fairly recent instance, actually:

A bunch of friends of mine and I had gotten together for a convention; and as we were dragging our feet that morning, trying to get out the door, one of my friend’s on his cellphone goes:

“Huh,” he said.

“What?” said another friend.

“…anybody a fan of bondage art?”

(this is where I paused, wondering if the startling question was directed at me somehow; or just a random occurrence)

“Why?” my other friend asked.

“Just got a pretty neat piece of art in my feed of (insert videogame character)…but they’re tied up,” my first friend explained. “Wanna see?”

“Sure,” said the second friend, and he went over to peer at the picture in the phone.

Meanwhile, I’m sitting over near the kitchen table finishing breakfast, realizing I’d been just a second away from saying “This guy, over here” and being able to have nonchalantly introduce my interest in a reasonable way.

I had one or two people in my group of friends already aware of my tie-up hobby; so this was a missed opportunity to bring more into the fold.

I doubt in the course of that day it would have resulted in a session…we were going to be busy…but who knows? XD

[El_llama]

I'm a guy, I was staying at one of my friends overnight at uni, in her bed, and we knew about us both being very kinky. I didn't realise, but she was heavily flirting with me kind of "take your jeans and shirt off in my bed, no outside clothes!" vibe.

Didn't get the hint, even when she put one hand over my mouth and the other over my throat when I was "being annoying". When she pinned my arms above my head, I was trying so hard to hide my erection.

Still cringe when I think about the kinky sex that I missed by being too oblivious... Feels bad man