Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

[Sheriff]

Hey all. Just want to share an experience and get some oppinions

So, for basically my entire life I've been into bondage but exclusively with women (wanting to tie them up or be tied up, depending on my mood). More recently though, I've been increasingly interested by the idea of being tied up by a guy, generally in quite a non-consensual and humiliating manner.

Has anyone else had anything like this?

[WrappedUp]

This is exactly what I have been going through for the last few years.

I have very gradually become more interested in the idea of M/M and the fantasy of being kidnapped by an older man. For me I think it's the power and humiliation that's so exciting. It's at the point where this is one of my main fantasies, even thinking of it the other way around.

It's something I am enjoying exploring more in recent times.

[Sheriff]

Glad it's not just me!

If you don't mind me asking @WrappedUp , do you know what started these thoughts? Also, what sort of things do you fantasise about happening/whata re the scenarios?

[HandgaggedShut]

Yeah, I definitely hear you on this one...

Over the last year or two I've been more interested in being tied by a guy.

For me I think it's something to do with the fact, I'm straight but the idea of being grabbed, stripped, tied and teased by a guy only accentuates the helplessness of the bondage because it then puts me in a scenario which ordinarily I wouldn't be in if I weren't tied and gagged...

[Sheriff]

@HandgaggedShut

Completely with you. If that's happening to you then it means the bondage must be REALLY good otherwise you wouldn't let it be happening.

[RotiferTape]

I’ve been hesitant on that. A long time ago I had a not awesome experience being tied up by a man, that I won’t go into detail about. Since then I strongly preferred woman to tie me up, however, I am trying to learn how to trust again. I shouldn’t let one bad experience taint my entire view being bound by men.

[BratBinder7]

Good to see I'm not the only one

[WillHBonney]

I've also been feeling this over the past year. Like the OP, for most of my TUG life I've been strictly into tying up or being tied up by women, however recently I've started to become more open to the idea of being tied by a man. I've even written a story about it now, based on my fantasies that involve being tied by a man. I quite like the idea of someone older and stronger taking me as their little play toy to tightly tie up, gag and torment all while I'm helpless to do anything about it.

[Knotted]

Most probably your mind is branching out a bit to find out new and interesting things in connection with the bondage experiences. Not really something unusual as far as I know.

[Terry]

Have always felt like this and wanting to be tied up by other guys. Masked men appeal to me more.

[Sheriff]

Good to see I'm not the only one

Definitely not!

@Terry In like, break-in scenarios?

@Knotted I’ve heard that happens

@WillHBonney I’ll have to give it a read! I’d love to send you a message to swap experiences on how the trajectories of the fantasies went!

[Silkyscarves]

Yes I definitely think about that happening & being kept held captive tied up gagged tightly in old basement or hidden hideaway somewhere secretly lol

[Red86]

I’ve been hesitant on that. A long time ago I had a not awesome experience being tied up by a man, that I won’t go into detail about. Since then I strongly preferred woman to tie me up, however, I am trying to learn how to trust again. I shouldn’t let one bad experience taint my entire view being bound by men.

Trust is a hard thing to rebuild after someone breaks it. I haven't had any issues with bondage/tugs but I know if someone breaks my trust, I know how I am. I can only image if someone breaks my trust during bondage, what that would do to me. However for every bad apple out there, there's a whole tree full of good ones. Just because one person wronged you, doesn't mean they all will. Just find someone you vibe with. I personally form a friendship with anyone I tie or get tied by. If we don't have a friendship outside of bondage, it's not likely I'll trust them. Everyone is different but that's my take.

[Knotted]

It also means, double the amount of possible partners for tie up games
Win win situation honestly.

[Terry]

Good to see I'm not the only one

@Terry In like, break-in scenarios?

Something like that. Or I'm a witness to a robbery or something and they grab me and kidnap keeping me tied up in the back of their van. Or a similar scenario.

[RotiferTape]

I’ve been hesitant on that. A long time ago I had a not awesome experience being tied up by a man, that I won’t go into detail about. Since then I strongly preferred woman to tie me up, however, I am trying to learn how to trust again. I shouldn’t let one bad experience taint my entire view being bound by men.

Trust is a hard thing to rebuild after someone breaks it. I haven't had any issues with bondage/tugs but I know if someone breaks my trust, I know how I am. I can only image if someone breaks my trust during bondage, what that would do to me. However for every bad apple out there, there's a whole tree full of good ones. Just because one person wronged you, doesn't mean they all will. Just find someone you vibe with. I personally form a friendship with anyone I tie or get tied by. If we don't have a friendship outside of bondage, it's not likely I'll trust them. Everyone is different but that's my take.

Yep that’s true! It took time to get over the feeling of “they’re all bad” haha. Trust definitely takes a long time to build and then longer to rebuild in my opinion, but not impossible

[Sheriff]

It also means, double the amount of possible partners for tie up games
Win win situation honestly.

True!

[kiwi]

Having been tied up by both men and women, there is a different dynamic with each, but the enjoyment from both is ultimately rooted in being helpless and bound at their feet for their amusement/enjoyment.

My attitude while bound is also slightly different, like with men I think I’m more defiant/struggle more (in a theatrical sense) but with women I’m more apt to submit and be more obedient. But that’s just my personal experience.

Like @knotted had said, double the number of folks who want to tie you, double the potential fun!

[sami200456boyfriend]

Being tied up by guys is better because it shows dominance and power. Even at a young age during scout days.

[superduperwaveydavey]

I’ve thought about it but it would have to be with very clear agreed boundaries and with someone I really trust. My boundaries would include being fully clothed with no sexual teasing , touching etc. For example, tied to a chair. gagged and blindfolded while they watched a movie or a sporting event. I would happily tie up a male friend with similar boundaries in reverse but I wouldn’t get much out of it myself.

It would be a very different experience to TUGs with a woman where sexual power dynamics come into play for me even where there is no sex involved.

In short, not something I’m likely to do but I do occasionally think about it.

[Boundranchhand]

I think I would be very open to it.

[Jeffpa1967]

I've always wanted to be forcibly tied by a small group of men. One where I really am trying to not be bound. I've done it one on one but didn't really fight back too hard.
Plus it's fairly easy to avoid with one person.

[hogtiedhostage2318]

I'm 100% straight but the first time I was ever tied up was by someone on this very website who is a male. Nothing sexual about it. Just the thrill of being gagged and bound for the sake of it.

[Wolfling]

Kinda the same for me. I consider myself straight, and was always interested in tied and gagged girls. Yet lately I'm into males being restrained or subdued. As a sub I also fantasize about being taken captive and being toyed with.

[FacelessMage]

Yeah, I definitely hear you on this one...

Over the last year or two I've been more interested in being tied by a guy.

For me I think it's something to do with the fact, I'm straight but the idea of being grabbed, stripped, tied and teased by a guy only accentuates the helplessness of the bondage because it then puts me in a scenario which ordinarily I wouldn't be in if I weren't tied and gagged...

That's quite hot. Id love to see how you'd react to that