No one to tie me up /f

[April]

Hi,

As the title suggest, no one has tied me up. But, I crave to be helpless and restrained. My dad works in security and has a few pairs of hand cuffs. I borrowed an old pair and put the key in the freezer on a string in a bowl of water. I hid it in the back so no one noticed. After bed time, I snuck out of my room to grab the key in ice. In my room I used a leather belt tight around my ankles to strap my ankles to the corners of the foot board of my bed. I wrapped the belt around my ankle and the foot board and wrapped in between then cinching it tight before going back through the buckle.

Next I tied the string on the key to the right head board. I tied my left hand with a pair of tights to the left head board. I then used a hand cuff to cuff my last hand to the headboard. As I locked the cuff around my right wrist I was so scared and excited.

I started to struggle right away to test how helpless I was. I was really surprised how well the belts and pair of tights held. I could not get out at all. My excitement built as I realized I really could not get out without the key. I struggled some more but had to be quiet since I didn’t want any one checking on me. I tried to slip me hand out of the tights but they just stretched as I pulled and I could not undo the knots.

As the ice took forever to melt I started to panic a little. The playful struggles became more real. But as I wanted to get out and couldn’t my excitement built even more. It was exactly the feeling I was craving. I pretended i was kid napped and someone else did this to me. My hand cuff wrist started to hurt. But the slight pain i could not stop made me feel even more helpless.

Eventually after 3 hours the key fell out of the ice attached to the string. I quickly grabbed it wiggled around to unlock the cuff attached to the head board. It was much harder then I expected to get the key in . I really needed to flex my wrist. As I kept missing the hole I got scared and even more excited as I was really trapped.

I finally got it open and quickly untied the tights holding my left wrist. I rubbed my hand cuffed wrist which has some marks on it. I ended up falling asleep with ankles still attached to bed. I dreamed about someone tickle torturing my feet that were still tied to the bed. I ended up releasing them around 5 am.

Today I’m wearing my watch that covers my hand cuff marks lol.

[MildManneredBondager]

I don't think you'll have trouble finding a bondage buddy

Just be careful who you choose.

[April]

Not sure how to even start with finding someone.

[WhereAmI]

Good story. Isn't it funny that when you put ice in a drink it melts within 30 seconds but if you put the key for your self bondage in ice as a timer to release the key it takes 3 days. All the time your brothers and sisters are watching and giggling at you and that ____ ice just won't melt.

[TuggyBoundMale]

Hey April

I‘d love to chat with you, if you want ofc

[Dpsiic]

@April As @MildManneredBondager states you need to be very careful when looking for someone to play with. You need someone who you trust with your life and I don't just mean falling prey to a predator. It could be a friend who leaves you alone once you are tied and aren't there if you get into difficulty and need releasing.

Obviously I have no idea where you are from or how old you are, though your posts would suggest you are quite young. If you are in The States things seem to be far more open to tie up games than they are here in The UK. There are many stories of families indulging in games there. Maybe that could be your first stop, speak to your mum, tell her how you feel, maybe she will understand and offer to tie you so you are in a safe situation.

Another suggestion is perhaps a best friend, again someone who you trust. You could arrange a movie night with your friend, pick a movie with a tie up scene and when it is shown use the the throwaway line 'I bet I could get out of that' and maybe they will take you up on the bet.

If playing with a partner make sure boundaries are set before you start so each knows what the other expects from the game. Make sure you have a safe word and signal so if necessary you will be released.

Finally be careful who you do talk to online and never arrange to meet someone. There was a case here a few years ago where a girl thought she was talking to a teenage boy, went to meet him and was met at the station by the 'dad' of the boy and it didn't end well.

[April]

All the time your brothers and sisters are watching and giggling at you and that ____ ice just won't melt.

No one saw me

[April]

Another suggestion is perhaps a best friend, again someone who you trust. You could arrange a movie night with your friend, pick a movie with a tie up scene and when it is shown use the the throwaway line 'I bet I could get out of that' and maybe they will take you up on the bet.

What movie do you suggest?

[Dpsiic]

@April Blimey that's a good question, I don't really watch films these days and haven't seen a good scene for ages. Maybe others here can help. Many years ago there was a film called 'Whispers in the Dark'starring Annabelle Sciorra which has an intense hogtie scene. Again not knowing your age I'm not sure it would be appropriate though it has been shown on TV.

Another suggestion isto show your friend one of the Duct Tape Challenge videos on Youtube, tell your friend you found them by accident but they look fun and you think you could do it.

[MildManneredBondager]

@April, @Dpsiic is correct. Your best bet is bringing this up with a trusted friend. They might be taken aback, but will almost certainly ask "Why?"

Now, it might be as in "Why in hell would..." but that's okay. Just be honest. Tell them you want to see what it's like. Worst they can do is say no.

[April]

Edited it to correct some typos. Sorry. My iPhone is to big for my hands.

[April]

I don't think you'll have trouble finding a bondage buddy

Just be careful who you choose.

I kind of want it to be family. But o know some lol bondage for different reasons then me and that could be weird. But either way I’m to embarrassed to say anything.

[Dpsiic]

@April How about telling your mum that friends at school have been talking about doing The Duct Tape Chalkenge, there are loads of videos on You Tube. Tell her it looks fun but you don’t trust your friends so would she tape you up so you can see if you can escape. She will be pleased you have come to her rather than put yourself in a vulnerable position with others I am sure.

[April]

Do you have a link to which challenge I should try?

[Dpsiic]

@april There's quite a few. If you go to Youtube and type duct tape challenge into the search bar you will find some.

[ludwig]

Hi April.

When you're younger, most tie up games occur during a normal game of cops and robbers, pirates, spies etc, scenarios in which somebody may be cuffed or bound.

Although it's you who wants to be tied up, if you play the game with a friend and propose tying them first, once they're free you can suggest they take their revenge on you. That was certainly the way I used to get myself bound when a kid.

And if tickling interests you while tied, tickle them first while bound, saying you're interrogating them to get 'the secret formula', or whatever. Then when they tie you up, say they need to do the same to you as payback.

Most importantly though, be safe and take care.

[Rog30a1]

The few times I got up the courage to ask someone to play,it turned out that they were waiting for me to ask,they were too embarrassed to ask me. YouTube is a good start,just try to pick videos with no escapes.

[Bondageboi]

@April

Instead of hiding the key in the freezer you can put some ice cubes in the toe of some tights and if you have a ring on the keys, thread the tights through the ring. Tie the tights up high and wait for the ice to melt and the keys fall. Helps to out a weight in to make sure the keys fall and the ring doesn’t get snagged.

Erm. Apparently. Erm. It like I ever tried it.