Low Effort Torture

[CaptiveDan]

Hey y'all! I'm trying to get some ideas for ways my boyfriend can torture me without much effort.

I enjoy being tied up and really experiencing the helplessness of being restrained by having to endure some sort of pain/discomfort that I can't escape. Tickling and spanking work great for this BUT they're very hands-on on my bf's part. Often he's doing something else (watching something, playing a game) and is keeping me tied up on the other side of the room. What are some ways/situations he can set up that will ensure I'm enduring fun tortures without him having to do much / stop doing what he's doing?

[meacham6]

Figure out some way to have water slowly dripping on your bare skin.

[copperfox]

When I’m tied up, I like to be as comfortable as possible, so I’ve never deliberately tried to do something that would be painful or annoying…so consider that a disclaimer… That said, there are a couple things that come to mind.

In a spreadeagle position, material make of small plastic or rubber spikes could be positioned directly beneath you so that you’re full weight is resting down on it. I’ve got a pair of locking leather bondage socks, and one of the options was to be sold with spiked inserts which would make it really painful/difficult to actually walk with them on…so that’s kinda the genesis of this idea. Depending on the material, this could go from mildly annoying to quite painful, I would imagine.

Secondly, you could incorporate the use of an e-stim unit, with pads strategically placed in multiple places…for maximum effect/enjoyment/torture. E-stim plugs may be an option as well. I have no personal experience with it, but this sounds like it might be something for you to consider. For something like this, however, I’d think it be especially important to ensure that even if your boyfriend isn’t always directly engaged, he’s right there to ensure you’re okay.

[Red86]

I'm going to add onto a bit of what both meacham6 & copperfox already said.

The Chinese water torture trick comes to mind. Get your BF to fully secure you and rig up a way for water to slowly drip onto your forehead. From what I heard, that gets maddening after only a short period of time. Estim pads. Two or more pairs can be a fun torture. Randomly set just slightly above what would be considered fully comfortable. Neither would physically harm you if done correctly. Obviously this goes without saying your BF will still need to keep an eye on you but otherwise, can go about other things in the room!

You could always invite me to come by. We'll come up with some ideas, set up the scene(s) then we'll go watch TV or something while also watching you struggle. Sounds like a win win win! Jk, or am I

[CaptiveDan]

Loving these ideas so far! Thanks meacham, copperox, and red!

Spikes are interesting. I've recently figured out a way to tie myself standing up using our door hinges as anchors. I could put the spikes on my heels somehow so that it hurts when I'm not on my tiptoes.

Love the idea of Chinese water torture. Idk how to rig up my head, but if he tied me up in the shower and had the water drop down that could at least get close to replicating.

I've been considering electro, seems like a very fun and easy torture. I'm split between getting a tens unit and letting him set to a certain amount/cycle and leave me VS getting a tens unit with a remote that he could just press every once and a while while he watches TV/plays on the computer.

[Red86]

Love the idea of Chinese water torture. Idk how to rig up my head, but if he tied me up in the shower and had the water drop down that could at least get close to replicating.

I've been considering electro, seems like a very fun and easy torture. I'm split between getting a tens unit and letting him set to a certain amount/cycle and leave me VS getting a tens unit with a remote that he could just press every once and a while while he watches TV/plays on the computer.

Oh I have ideas for the water torture. Just need a tarp on the floor and a water jug with a tiny hole hanging from the ceiling. Oh and something that you'd be secured immobile to. A camping cot could work, even if it gets wet a little bit. But the idea is you wouldn't be able to move your head enough to stop the drip from hitting your forehead.

I have used a tens unit on a friend while he was in a sleepsack. But it was more to help him relax, not torture him. It honestly helps keep your muscles from cramping up during longer scenes. But now you have that dilemma of a standard tens unit with normal cycles or 1 with a remote. My opinion, get both so you have options available!

[Mister The Edge]

Jam your thumb into pressure points. It hurts, you can control the pressure, and easy.

[illest]

Sounds like you guys would have fun with a pump gag. He could blindfold you and every so often pump the gag at will to muffle you more and possibly make breathing a tad more difficult.

[TightsBound]

I like to use annoying sound clips on loop. The Friends theme song, Lambchop’s Song That Doesn’t End, and Rick and Morty’s Human Music are particularly good.

[copperfox]

Just to add another quick thought, @CaptiveDan…

Nipple clamps and strategically placed clothes pins would also provide quite a bit of torture with no effort on his part. If in a standing or seated position, weighted nipple clamps would become even more painful. The most painful part, however, would be taking them off after they’ve been on a while.

Have you guys decided on anything yet?

[CaptiveDan]

I have used a tens unit on a friend while he was in a sleepsack. But it was more to help him relax, not torture him. It honestly helps keep your muscles from cramping up during longer scenes. But now you have that dilemma of a standard tens unit with normal cycles or 1 with a remote. My opinion, get both so you have options available!

Can you turn the tens unit on and leave it on? That might be nice for really hands off scenes. While the remote one could be good for when he still wants to be involved but not devote full attention.

Jam your thumb into pressure points. It hurts, you can control the pressure, and easy.

We've done this before in our more active scenes and I love-hate it!

Sounds like you guys would have fun with a pump gag. He could blindfold you and every so often pump the gag at will to muffle you more and possibly make breathing a tad more difficult.

Ooh pump gag is cool - definitely should check it out. I've been looking for a good gag. I have a covered ball gag which is terrible and I can easily spit out, a o-ring open mouth gag that's even easier to spit out, and a head harness that is the only real gag (if he puts a sock or handkerchief in my mouth before locking it on) which works great but takes alot of time to get one right. I've been looking for new gags and maybe I should go for a pump gag.

I like to use annoying sound clips on loop. The Friends theme song, Lambchop’s Song That Doesn’t End, and Rick and Morty’s Human Music are particularly good.

I actually tried this last time, it wasnt for me... I have a really high patience lol I could just zone it out.

I do like using music for sensory dep stuff though. Last time I tied myself to the door I blindfolded myself and put on headphones to listen to white noise until my bf decided it was time to unlock me.

Just to add another quick thought, @CaptiveDan…

Nipple clamps and strategically placed clothes pins would also provide quite a bit of torture with no effort on his part. If in a standing or seated position, weighted nipple clamps would become even more painful. The most painful part, however, would be taking them off after they’ve been on a while.

Have you guys decided on anything yet?

I LOVE clothespins on nipples. I'm worried about them being on for too long though, and he usually leaves me for a good hour or so. How long is too long for clothes pins?

Haven't had a chance to do bdsm since posting the question, but I'm planning on asking him about some of these this week! Wish me luck

[Red86]

Can you turn the tens unit on and leave it on? That might be nice for really hands off scenes. While the remote one could be good for when he still wants to be involved but not devote full attention.

I think most run upto an hour before they'll shut off automatically. The one I have goes up to an hr, has duel channels ( 4 pads) and like 30 different modes which can be the same or different for each channel and different power levels to. So your BF would probably have to reset it again, maybe even change the setting every hour but otherwise could basically ignore you. The definitely can be for relaxation or more torture if set to high.

[CaptiveDan]

Can you turn the tens unit on and leave it on? That might be nice for really hands off scenes. While the remote one could be good for when he still wants to be involved but not devote full attention.

I think most run upto an hour before they'll shut off automatically. The one I have goes up to an hr, has duel channels ( 4 pads) and like 30 different modes which can be the same or different for each channel and different power levels to. So your BF would probably have to reset it again, maybe even change the setting every hour but otherwise could basically ignore you. The definitely can be for relaxation or more torture if set to high.

Talked to my bf this past weekend and I ordered one of the battery pack set it and you leave ones and one of the remote ones. Should get here this upcoming weekend, I'm excited to try them out

[bindable]

Tied up with itchy ropes, e.g. coconut rope? Or sprinkled with itching powder?
Tied face down while in a bra-connection wedgie?
Tied face down in a thong then icy hot or similar applied to buttocks, i.e. "silent spanking"?
Tied up in wet clothes?
Tied up and squished into a small cupboard?
Tied on the floor on your tummy beneath his desk chair with your lower legs bent up and tied to the front legs of the chair, so that he can easily tickle your feet randomly while working or gaming?
Tied in an uncomfortable position like strappado or strict hogtie?
Tied up in a diaper after drinking a lot of water?
Tied up with his smelly gym shoe attached to your face?
Tied on the couch with your face near his bum when he's gassy?

[ZiptieFriend]

Tied up with itchy ropes, e.g. coconut rope? Or sprinkled with itching powder?
Tied face down while in a bra-connection wedgie?
Tied face down in a thong then icy hot or similar applied to buttocks, i.e. "silent spanking"?
Tied up in wet clothes?
Tied up and squished into a small cupboard?
Tied on the floor on your tummy beneath his desk chair with your lower legs bent up and tied to the front legs of the chair, so that he can easily tickle your feet randomly while working or gaming?
Tied in an uncomfortable position like strappado or strict hogtie?
Tied up in a diaper after drinking a lot of water?
Tied up with his smelly gym shoe attached to your face?
Tied on the couch with your face near his bum when he's gassy?

Holy hell you can do all that to me if you like

[Bound Down]

You could get tied up with the AC off/in a room with a space heater to make you sweat it out, add winter clothing or sleepsacks to make it worse.

Alternatively get tied up in an ice bath/cold shower or heat turned down and minimal clothing.

If you're into wax play you could use a dildo/other holder to secure a dripping candle over your body. Obviously this would require close supervision although not active involvement.


There's also automated spanking/edging/milking machines if you're willing to drop money on something that can be set up left running.

[copperfox]

You could get tied up with the AC off/in a room with a space heater to make you sweat it out, add winter clothing or sleepsacks to make it worse.

Alternatively get tied up in an ice bath/cold shower or heat turned down and minimal clothing.

If you're into wax play you could use a dildo/other holder to secure a dripping candle over your body. Obviously this would require close supervision although not active involvement.


There's also automated spanking/edging/milking machines if you're willing to drop money on something that can be set up left running.

After reading reviews of several of these types of milking systems (V2K, VacuGlide, Tremblr), I’m seriously considering getting one…specifically the VacuGlide. However, I was always worried that, with enough struggling, the cylinder would easily pop off. There’s lots of video showing just how powerful the suction is on this thing…so I might just be convinced enough to pull the trigger!

I’m definitely interested to see if anyone else has one of these systems and how they actually perform in sessions involving lots of struggling and post-orgasm torture.

[Bound Down]

@copperfox I have a v2k. I also bought a harness designed for it to keep it on. Without the harness it will easily pop off on its own, no struggle required.

With the harness, it will generally stay on when I'm hard, but after an orgasm when my dick goes soft it can still fall out accidentally.

If I'm using it long term for torment, it's something my partner normally has to come in to check on periodically.

[Jeffpa1967]

I like to use annoying sound clips on loop. The Friends theme song, Lambchop’s Song That Doesn’t End, and Rick and Morty’s Human Music are particularly good.

As you say that I just picture soneone being tied up with headphones on with Baby Shark on endless loop.
LMAO

[illest]

Tied up with itchy ropes, e.g. coconut rope? Or sprinkled with itching powder?
Tied face down while in a bra-connection wedgie?
Tied face down in a thong then icy hot or similar applied to buttocks, i.e. "silent spanking"?
Tied up in wet clothes?
Tied up and squished into a small cupboard?
Tied on the floor on your tummy beneath his desk chair with your lower legs bent up and tied to the front legs of the chair, so that he can easily tickle your feet randomly while working or gaming?
Tied in an uncomfortable position like strappado or strict hogtie?
Tied up in a diaper after drinking a lot of water?
Tied up with his smelly gym shoe attached to your face?
Tied on the couch with your face near his bum when he's gassy?

-Never did itching powder but considering how sensitive my skin has been recently I'd be scared to

-I LOVE Wedgies. Strangely enough I fell off of wedges around the time I fell into crossdressing, but I need to get back into it because the pics and videos I could do with both would be hot! My go-tos were usually partial suspension wedgies, occasionally full hanging wedgies, and what I like to call a "gag-connection" wedgie where instead of connecting it to a bra I use rope or my robe sash to tie it to the back of my ballgag or wrap gag. Any struggling either pulls the wedgie or the gag deeper in my mouth!

-I gotta try that Icy Hot idea one day!

-The wet clothes idea seems interesting. I'd have to be in a specific scenario to try that one out.

- I'm a rather tall and big guy so being squished into a cupboard wouldn't work. However I always did want to be packaged in a closet or like tied to a dolly and carted off

-I feel the need to try a good strapped one day, definitely looks hot. As far as a strict hogtie I love hogties but really wish I had the patience of AllieBowString to learn to tie my own elbows

-As I descend deeper(more like plummet uncontrollably) into sissification I definitely thought about a diaper and pink onesie day. Maybe I'll do that during the weekend my wife goes out of town.

-Love shoe gags and videos where the woman ties a high heel over a heavily gagged woman's face.

-Been trying to get a smother harness so my wife can do that to me. There's a particular DA user who specializes in that.

Another idea is to tie a smelly sock over the nose and finish it with a pantyhood or underwear hood. Me personally I wouldn't mind a strict hogtie with a collar tied to a fixed point but I'd never do that alone.