When is the time you felt most helpless?

[BandG]

Can you remember a bondage experience where you realised you really were helpless and couldn't get out of your predicament without the help of someone else?

A moment that springs to mind for me was around 6 years ago. I was 24 years old and staying over at my girlfriend's at the time. She was a nurse and lived with 5 other female nurses. She was curvy, blonde, blue eyes, could be quite feisty.

We had done bits of bondage up until then - mainly just some handcuffs and a blindfold.

On this occasion she had bought a hogtie kit which were black straps that you could connect to wrists and ankles. She hogtied me on the bed in her bedroom - I was completely naked. She had blindfolded me with a black blindfold that came as part of a bondage kit.

Once she had connected the straps I remember thinking there was no way i could get loose. Then she gagged me for the first time using her underwear cleave gagging me and then a couple of strips of duct tape over my lips but she had used one to wrap completely around my head so I couldn't spit the cleave gag out.

She went out the room to go and get something else for a few minutes and I remember lying there testing my bonds and gag and thinking I really was helpless. It such an exciting feeling but also had some nervous butterflies!

She only left me for a few minutes and had come back with some ice cubes and a flogger...suffice to say it was a very good experience.

[TightsBound]

I’ve been tied up many times and couldn’t move or escape, but there was one occasion where I really wanted out but had to wait. My friend put me in a straitjacket and strapped me tightly to a chair so I could barely move and used a thick cleave gag. Then he cuffed himself to a chair right next to me and set a time release for two hours. The straitjacket was a little too small on me and he strapped it tight, and about an hour in my shoulder was feeling sore. I wanted out but there was zero chance with us both tied up. There was nothing to do but sit and wait for the time to wind down.

[sami200456boyfriend]

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[Raian]

hey, yeah I have a few times felt really helpless but my most notable was about 2 years ago I was ziptied at the ankles, above and below my knees, my wrists were tied and my elbow brought to touch and bindings around my chest, I was laid on a table (not a big table just like a coffee table) and I was hogtied, ankles connected to my chest bindings, a ballgag was in my mouth and vet wrap was used as a blindfold and I was left like that for about half hour although felt longer and eve though I wasnt far off the floor the blindfold makes you second guess your actions so did feel like I couldnt do anything

[RotiferTape]

Whenever I’m mummified in Saran Wrap and duct tape is when I feel the most helpless.

[JulieG]

First time.tied spread eagle to a bed.with gag amd. Blindfold and the first.time.I was.in a strict ball.tie. both times I knew there was.no way to wriggle out and I could barely move atall. Ill have to write about them sometime.

[Svpmissive]

When my ex used to put me in a straight jacket and sensory deprivation hood, I would feel incredibly aroused thinking about the fact I had no way out until she came to release me.

[Trammel]

When I was a teenager I went out in the woods at night in winter (not too cold but winter) with a friend. I had a pair of handcuffs and I asked him to handcuff me to a tree, leave me there for a bit, then come back. I put my arm around the tree which was about 10 inches in diameter and he handcuffed my wrists. He then left and I was alone at night in the forest with the wind whistling through the trees.

It was exciting and after a bit I started to test the effectiveness of the handcuffs. They were plenty snug. I stood there for quite a while. The longer I was there the more nervous I became. I tried to slip my hands out but there was no way. I was there for a long time, what seemed like an eternity, maybe 45 minutes, before my friend came back. He told me he figured they were some type of trick handcuffs and I would be gone when he returned. He had considered not coming back, but he did. There was no way I was getting out of that without his help and those woods were very lonely.

[Racer]

The first time my wife’s ex had me tied up! He and some of his friends had me tied up in the woods. They placed me with my back to a tree, and tied my wrists behind. They left me alone for a while, and I had no chance to escape. I felt completely helpless!

[LandNgal]

Managed to be put in a hogtie last week with some.tape over my mouth. Couldn't get out. Was awesome ( female from uk)

[puddy300]

Most times I've been tied up, I've felt pretty helpless. However, the time I felt the most helpless was when a specific time I was tied to a chair.

My wrists were tied together to a slat in the back of the chair, so they could move. The knot was out of reach, so already I was stuck. My ankles were tied and lifted off the ground, tied to the back of the chair. My toes were hanging above the ground, so I couldn't put them down to try to shift the chair. My torso, legs, knees were all tied to the chair, so I could barely so much as wiggle. And I was blindfolded and my mouth was sealed shut with duct tape.

I couldn't move, speak, see or do anything, utterly at the mercy of my tying partner. The person who tied me up tickled me, and there was nothing I could do to even fight back. That was when I felt the most helpless. And I wish I could experience it again.

[Niceandtight31]

Felt the most helpless was I was in a hotel room with a professional dominatrix I was completely naked in a really tight hogtie,my mouth stuffed with panties and tape wrapping around.....if I wanted to get out there was no way that was happening without her help

[angim350]

Urmmm when I was a kid, some friends tied me up with some shoelaces and I surprisingly could not get free on my own, no matter how much I struggled. I've also successfully managed to tie myself up a few times were I needed to cut the rope to get free, but it's very hit and miss.

[Kishi]

A couple years ago, I did a fairly-heavy cnc scene with a dom I knew very well. I was bound in an incredibly intense stress hogtie, and blindfolded. The feeling really hit me once he stuffed the gag in, though. No talking, no pleading, and no control. For the next 12 straight hours I was going to suffer no matter what*.

*bar any legitimate emergencies

[LandNgal]

About three years ago I got tied up close to bedtime and my partner went into the spare room and he fell asleep. I had my hands and feet tied ( luckily not a hogtie)..had go hobble through to wake him..took ages trying to.open the door.

[JennyTied]

When I was ball bound with cable ties and handcuffs, warm water dripping down on me.

[leconteur]

Ive done rope and even tape to the point where I wouldn't be able to get loose, at least not without a substantial amount of time. But chains. Chains really make you feel stuck. I have some that I use for chaining my wrists with one link each and locking them into a long chain that goes around the waist. I will sometimes just tape my ankles together but I have a chains for ankles too. Of course before I chain my wrists to my waist I pop in a knotted cleave gag and tie a tight classic detective/over the mouth gag over the cleave for good measure.

[FacelessMage]

Thinking back to a scene I described in the adult section here, I felt the most helpless when my friend had me bound and pinned face down on the bed, ball gagged. I could feel their...excitement and there was nothing I could do to stop em if they were so inclined. That was an intense feeling

[cellofello]

If you look at my avatar, that is me in a very tight-fitting sleepsack with internal sleeves, tightly tied down to a wooden frame. The sleepsack is inescapable all by itself, and being tied down like that left me unable to do much more than wiggle my head and feet.

[nitronovice]

I feel helpless any time I'm tied up because they really knew what they were doing and placed knots well out of reach. It didn't matter if it was a hog tie, chair tie, or just tied and left struggle on a bed or couch.
However, my most nervous moment was the first time meeting for a bondage session. After we chatted for a bit, I went to the bathroom and changed into my school uniform. Unbeknownst to my tie-er, I walked out with my hands cuffed and chained to my waist behind my back, and legs were shackled. I didn't know if they had good or bad intentions, but it was too late because I had already rendered myself helpless.
Luckily it turned out to be a good time.

[takeru]

Last year, I tried some rope bondage with a good friend. Our ropework was a bit shabby, perhaps because the ropes we used were too thick. But, both of us wanted to try overstimulation, and when it came to my turn, I learnt what helplessness meant. After the first O, I wanted to be let out in a bad way. But the safeword refused to come to my mind for quite a few seconds. Those were perhaps the longest few seconds of my life. Truly helpless.

Fortunately, it wasn't CNC, and we both respected each others' boundaries a quite well, or atleast she did mine! The safeword did come to me finally, and I learnt how intense and helpless things can be. In hindsight, that has also made me wonder if the reverse had occurred as well - me putting her into a subspace rendering her unable to say the safe word. She used to go speechless during these times. The days are gone, but subs and bottoms becoming speechless, even if ungagged, will definitely remain a concern for future bondage scenes.