Long-term bondage BORED

[TheOldPirate]

For those of you into long-term bondage (straitjackets, sleepsacks, etc.) what do you do with all of your copious free time. I'd imagine it'd be difficult to read a book or work the remote? Or is it all about the helpless isolation for you?

[tiedinbluetights]

For me, it is about the freedom, or the sense of liberation from duty and obligations, that comes from essentially not being able to do anything else but breathe and just be, be in the moment, with no other responsibilities or obligations. It can be quite meditative. And it also requires absolute unconditional trust in my captor, reinforcing my relationship with them. And that trust does go both ways, as my captor relies on me to honestly and clearly communicate my needs in real-time, moment by moment, if ever the bondage session needs to stop.

So while it may appear to an external onlooker that it is extended and enforced boredom, with no action whatsoever, there is in actuality a constant yet subtle dynamic exchange of cues. If trust and love could be easily visualized like iron filings lining up with magnetic force lines, then there would be millions of such lines between me and my captor.

[Sablesword]

There's long-term bondage with complete or near-complete helplessness (straitjackets, sleep sacks, etc.) and long-term bondage that allows limited movement or activity (hobbles, shackled to a chair or bed, wrists cuffed in front, etc). Personally I find the latter to be more interesting to apply and watch, with the former being more interesting for short-term... activities, and less so as a long-term thing.

[Red86]

Define long term

Personally I've gone as long as approximately 6 hours in a straitjacket. It was done solo, I can actually get myself (atleast younger me) in and out a friction buckle style one fairly easy. I watched TV and slept through most of that. As for the longest I've ever been tied by someone else, I think that was about 2 or 3 hours in a sleepsack. I'm not super switchy so it was fully on my terms but I spent most of that time zoning in and out, watching TV and chatting when I wasn't muzzled. I have pretty bad adhd but I have found bondage, both as dom but more so if I switch, let's me slow my brain down. Like in a meditative way. Unfortunately my mood for being the one tied can flip very easy at any moment but I've gotten better about it.

[slackywacky]

Sitting on a chair, bound, gagged and blindfolded for over 3 hours this past Saturday, might not qualify to some as long-term bondage, but to me it is. And with earbuds playing music loud enough to not be irritating, but able to block out surrounding sounds this time, I am left in my own little world. I have no idea when I will be released, although if I make enough racket, they will release me. I am tied tight with very little movement, hands handcuffed, so I know looking for knots is useless.

I can get in a meditate state sometimes. Not always. Having music play adds that extra layer of helplessness, as they can be right next to me and I would not know. All I can do is wait. If I have music to listen to, it seems time goes a little quicker, but in the end your jaw start to hurt from the ballgag, your shoulders hurt from being tied tight and you would love to stretch your legs and arms.

I have slept bound and gagged several times, but sleeping while tied to a strait back chair is not that easy, or at least, I have not been able to, even when tied to the chair for 5 hours.

What I do know is that any distraction is welcomed. Whether it somebody touching me (preferred) to ice cubes being stuffed down my pants or shirt (not nice).

[copperfox]

Not exactly “long term” bondage, but I really enjoy a nice, tight hogtie for a couple hours at a time. That’s certainly more than enough time for me to struggle to my heart’s content (which is until I physically don’t have the strength to struggle anymore), and then spend the next long while just relaxing and enjoying my bondage situation (and often simultaneously contemplating life decisions that led to this this point).

However, this can get a bit “boring” at times…rolling over one on side, then the other, then back…wondering when I’ll be released. So, recently I’ve started incorporating a couple other elements into my predicament to make things more interesting. I have some max capacity diapers that I’d bought for overnight bondage sessions, but had an interesting idea on another way to use them. A few weeks ago, I bought a female grinding pad (I actually didn’t know those existed until very recently) and place it in the front of the diaper…along with a very generous amount of lube. Next, I’ve got a pair of locking canvas over-diaper shorts purchased from Etsy. They lock on with three straps…two straps around each thigh and a crotch strap. The crotch strap is pulled up and locked on tight enough that the grinding pad in the diaper doesn’t move at all…even when I’m struggling as hard as I can.

Now…instead of just being tied up and laying there with nothing else to really do…I can “hump the floor” (or just move with any grinding motion, for that matter)…and it feels fantastic. With its nubs and ribbed texture, it’s easy to orgasm. So, I can have lots of pleasurable fun for a couple hours, then be more than ready for some romantic time. However, a few times—I’ve felt frisky and decided to orgasm within a few minutes of having my hands locked behind my back to complete the hogtie. At that point, yeah…there was no other choice than to really weigh my life’s decisions and wait until I was finally freed.

For what it’s worth, I’d come up with this idea because I’d been trying to find a solution to the boredom you’re talking about…and hadn’t been able to find anything else that really worked (vibrators don’t stay in place, etc.).

I havne’t tried this while in a sleep sack or straitjacket, but can imagine this work work in those situations as well.

[GIMMMPH]

Well there's really "nothing" I can do when I am in longterm bondage. I have done 4-5 day prisoner/hostage sessions where I am ALWAYS in bondage. I've also done a few 15 hour sleepsack sessions. All you can really do is moan and stare at the dark, and listen to sounds (sensory deprivation) because I am usually hooded and in Bluetooth headphones and gagged. Also, whatever the captor does to torture me during that time. Otherwise, nothing I can do!

[JennyTied]

For those of you into long-term bondage (straitjackets, sleepsacks, etc.) what do you do with all of your copious free time. I'd imagine it'd be difficult to read a book or work the remote? Or is it all about the helpless isolation for you?

You can't read if your captor prevents you. I have experienced that.