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It’s not the same

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mikeybound
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It’s not the same

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I don’t know what it is, but I never really feel the excitement of tugs anymore. Stories, doing it, talking about it. This was such a big thing for me in early years, and now I don’t know if I care about it anymore.

Has anyone else been burnt out on tugs?
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Post by latin-self-bound »

I have feel that for periods of time, but then after some months the urges and excitement for tug games and tie ups challenges come back.

We the humans are complex beings, so it's normal to have fluctuations in some tastes and feelings. Just don't pressure yourself in doing things without really feeling it.
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Post by Red86 »

There's many things in life that will cause me to burn out. Can be anything from work realted, to things I normally enjoy, including bondage. Either I'll get super busy with work and not have time to hop on and read stories or in some cases I'm just not in the mood for anything bondage related. Doesn't usually last long. Maybe a day to a week or two at most.

The last time I had in person bondage fun, I was partially burned out. It was right around the holidays, we had an overload with work and I had one cleint that was just driving me crazy with something that was out of my control at that time. When I finally left work and met up with my friend that afternoon, I was pretty burned out. I just wasn't totally feeling it. We still had fun, so not all was lost!
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Post by copperfox »

People change—a person’s hobbies, interests, and priorities are certainly subject to change over the course of months or years, and there’s nothing wrong with that! Sometimes people lose interest in things due to other issues, such as dealing with stress or simply not having enough time to invest in those hobbies.

So, how have you been in the past four months since this post? Have you regained any of your excitement for TUGs? Or has your previous passion for TUGs even been replaced with another interest or hobby?

Hope you are doing well, whatever the case!
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Post by drgoremd »

I grew up in the pre-Internet era. Discovering a scene in a movie, tv show or book required good fortune or a lot of sweat equity. You learned to spot a half second scene in a trailer or read a TV Guide listing with a degree of expertise that would help you determine whether it was worth committing space on a VHS tape to. Finding bondage magazines or videos often meant driving to a shop 30 miles outside of the city you lived in or a highly suspect inner city neighborhood. Coming across someone with a dating profile indicating they were interested in bondage from the matchmaking services that existed at the time was almost unheard of.

Today you can spend hours just downloading videos from the internet, there are sites specifically tailored to people who want to engage in bondage with people in their area, and Chat-GPT can write a story for you in seconds about someone being tied up.

It's understandable why people nowadays would quickly burn out their pleasure centers quickly chasing that itch.
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