Long time lurker's first experience (M/F)
Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2026 2:11 am
I was fascinated with tied up women since my early childhood. Damsels on TV and other media clouded my my mind, I was (and am still to this day) especially fond of the kidnapped princess, a woman in a beautiful gown tightly tied up in ropes. Despite this fascination, childhood tugs only rarely occured, only happening once in a while during recess in elementary school with a girl in my class who seemed eager to be on the recieving end.
Unrestricted access to the internet only deepend my love for bondage, leading me to the old TUG site where I witnessed the experiences of others from a distance. I still have fond memories of reading the legendary stories from Sarobah for the first time.
But this is the story of my own first sexual bondage experience.
I grew up as a pretty awkward teen, never being really popular in school. I was too insecure, partly because I was growing into a body that was far too tall and lanky for a 16 year old boy. Already being 6'4, almost 6'5 by that time was harsh for someone who didn't want to garner much attention. Back then getting a girlfriend was completely out of the question for me.
Luckily times change. Over the years my frame filled out, my face became sharper and my confidence grew and suddenly,when I was around 18 and 19 years old, I started getting some attention I actually enjoyed.
One day at a costume party I met her. Lena was... a lot of things. One year older than me, experienced, sexy, chaotic, a head shorter than me, staight forward, emotional... And most important of all, she was interested in me. I couldn't belive my luck. We started dating which was already rather complicated, but after some time we bacame a couple.
I figured out pretty soon that sex was amazing. However, I always had that desire to finally live out my bondage fantasies. A couple of months into the relationship I finally opened up to her about my kinks. I remember being so scared that she would find it way too weird and creepy, luckily for me Lena actually seemed quite intruiged by all of it.
After 4 months of being together it finally happened.
We were laying in my bed, wildly making out, already craving and undressing each other. But this time I wanted more.
We were both naked when I asked her "Can you get up for me? I want to try something"
She smiled and did what I asked. Now in front of me stood my naked girlfriend with dark hair, round b cup boobs and a nice butt. I tried not to shake too hard when I turned her around and pulled out my red bandana whch I folded into a band. I brought it down over her eyesand tied the ends off behind her head, effectively blindfolding her. She turned around on her own to face me and seeing her like that already turned me on to no end. Blindfolds have always been one of my favorite bondage items and just now I had applied one for the first time on the woman I loved. But I wasn't done and she seemed eager to continue. I turned her around again and brought her arms and wrists togehter behind her back.
Obviously I didn't own any bondage material back then, so I had to improvise. I took blue band, imagine a ribbon to tie a present, and started binding her crossed wrists. Having seen a lot of videos on how to tie up another person, my work wasn't even half bad and I was very pleased when I saw she couldn't get out on her own.
By now, even though she was helpless at my mercy already, she was smiling even brighter and I just had to tie her up some more. I took out a belt and used it to bind her arms to her upper body, making sure that it sat tight around her chest just under her boobs which made them stand out even more. The next belt went around her belly and arms again, tightly pinning them to herself and maiking her even more helpless.
Throughout all of this we weren't talking, but you could sense that we both got more and more excited.
I knew exactly what I wanted to do next with her. I grabbed her by the belt under her boobs and pulled her towards the middle of my room. Next i used my last belt to tie her ankles together and stopped her from using her legs. I lowered her into a kneeling position and was almost ready to finally use my tied girlfriend. But first I took a step back to admire her beauty and my work, still almst not believing how lucky I was to finally experience this.
What she did next made me almost faint. My tied, blindfolded, helplessly kneeling girlfriend pulled her head back and opened her mouth. Waiting for me. Without me having to say anything.
I couldn't wait any longer. I got in position in front of her, grabbed her head and hair and made her get to work on me.
She didn't disappoint, taking it all in and gagging on it as I moved her head back and forth, over and over and over again...
After some time I decided to give her a break and let her catch her breath.
She used the moment to speak.
"I want you inside of me."
She didn't need to say that twice.
I helped her get up from the keenling position and untied her ankles. I made her walk over to my bed and brought her down to her knees again, making her lay her upper body on the matress with her legs still on the ground.
I got in position again and iserted myself insider her from behind.
I started thrusting and her moans filled out the room. I needed to gag her.
Pulling off her blindfold as I was taking her from behind, I tied a knot in the middle of it and shoved it in her mouthagain tying the end off behind her head. I could tell that she was loving the new sensation, moaning even more into her gag which muffled her beautifully.
We both finished at the same time.
After I untied her, she told me that she got wetter with every belt that I applied on her.
Since then there have been a lot more bondage adventures, some with her, but a lot with other girls. But I know that I will forever look back to this moment, where I had my true first bondage experience.
Unrestricted access to the internet only deepend my love for bondage, leading me to the old TUG site where I witnessed the experiences of others from a distance. I still have fond memories of reading the legendary stories from Sarobah for the first time.
But this is the story of my own first sexual bondage experience.
I grew up as a pretty awkward teen, never being really popular in school. I was too insecure, partly because I was growing into a body that was far too tall and lanky for a 16 year old boy. Already being 6'4, almost 6'5 by that time was harsh for someone who didn't want to garner much attention. Back then getting a girlfriend was completely out of the question for me.
Luckily times change. Over the years my frame filled out, my face became sharper and my confidence grew and suddenly,when I was around 18 and 19 years old, I started getting some attention I actually enjoyed.
One day at a costume party I met her. Lena was... a lot of things. One year older than me, experienced, sexy, chaotic, a head shorter than me, staight forward, emotional... And most important of all, she was interested in me. I couldn't belive my luck. We started dating which was already rather complicated, but after some time we bacame a couple.
I figured out pretty soon that sex was amazing. However, I always had that desire to finally live out my bondage fantasies. A couple of months into the relationship I finally opened up to her about my kinks. I remember being so scared that she would find it way too weird and creepy, luckily for me Lena actually seemed quite intruiged by all of it.
After 4 months of being together it finally happened.
We were laying in my bed, wildly making out, already craving and undressing each other. But this time I wanted more.
We were both naked when I asked her "Can you get up for me? I want to try something"
She smiled and did what I asked. Now in front of me stood my naked girlfriend with dark hair, round b cup boobs and a nice butt. I tried not to shake too hard when I turned her around and pulled out my red bandana whch I folded into a band. I brought it down over her eyesand tied the ends off behind her head, effectively blindfolding her. She turned around on her own to face me and seeing her like that already turned me on to no end. Blindfolds have always been one of my favorite bondage items and just now I had applied one for the first time on the woman I loved. But I wasn't done and she seemed eager to continue. I turned her around again and brought her arms and wrists togehter behind her back.
Obviously I didn't own any bondage material back then, so I had to improvise. I took blue band, imagine a ribbon to tie a present, and started binding her crossed wrists. Having seen a lot of videos on how to tie up another person, my work wasn't even half bad and I was very pleased when I saw she couldn't get out on her own.
By now, even though she was helpless at my mercy already, she was smiling even brighter and I just had to tie her up some more. I took out a belt and used it to bind her arms to her upper body, making sure that it sat tight around her chest just under her boobs which made them stand out even more. The next belt went around her belly and arms again, tightly pinning them to herself and maiking her even more helpless.
Throughout all of this we weren't talking, but you could sense that we both got more and more excited.
I knew exactly what I wanted to do next with her. I grabbed her by the belt under her boobs and pulled her towards the middle of my room. Next i used my last belt to tie her ankles together and stopped her from using her legs. I lowered her into a kneeling position and was almost ready to finally use my tied girlfriend. But first I took a step back to admire her beauty and my work, still almst not believing how lucky I was to finally experience this.
What she did next made me almost faint. My tied, blindfolded, helplessly kneeling girlfriend pulled her head back and opened her mouth. Waiting for me. Without me having to say anything.
I couldn't wait any longer. I got in position in front of her, grabbed her head and hair and made her get to work on me.
She didn't disappoint, taking it all in and gagging on it as I moved her head back and forth, over and over and over again...
After some time I decided to give her a break and let her catch her breath.
She used the moment to speak.
"I want you inside of me."
She didn't need to say that twice.
I helped her get up from the keenling position and untied her ankles. I made her walk over to my bed and brought her down to her knees again, making her lay her upper body on the matress with her legs still on the ground.
I got in position again and iserted myself insider her from behind.
I started thrusting and her moans filled out the room. I needed to gag her.
Pulling off her blindfold as I was taking her from behind, I tied a knot in the middle of it and shoved it in her mouthagain tying the end off behind her head. I could tell that she was loving the new sensation, moaning even more into her gag which muffled her beautifully.
We both finished at the same time.
After I untied her, she told me that she got wetter with every belt that I applied on her.
Since then there have been a lot more bondage adventures, some with her, but a lot with other girls. But I know that I will forever look back to this moment, where I had my true first bondage experience.