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TUG growing up

Posted: Wed Dec 24, 2025 11:31 am
by MrHunter01
Usually growing up TUG were a staple in the rotation of kids games where I'm from even though I've only been part of one. Does anyone maybe have any experiences they would like to share and maybe how their current relationship with that person is?

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Wed Dec 24, 2025 7:05 pm
by Kyle
There were a few I remember. My memory's kind of vague on most of them.

-A couple of older boys took me and a girl "hostage" during a game. She took advantage of a distraction and ran off but I wasn't fast enough and got tied to a post for a few minutes.

-An older girl (the previous girl's older sister, actually) got handcuffed to a water meter once. I forget the context. I think I freed her. It didn't last long.

-There was a game we played for a bit where we tried to shoot each other with toy guns. Getting "shot" meant you got captured, not killed. I don't remember a lot of actual tying up, but we might've used the handcuffs mentioned before. Mostly it just led to a lot of arguing over who shot who first. I was the youngest kid in the neighborhood for a while and tended to get shot and caught the most.

-All the others happened when I was 10 or younger. There was one instance as a teenager I tried to tie a girl up with a jump rope, but we got interrupted. She seemed receptive enough of it, as her protests were more playful than anger.

I've long since lost contact with any of them. I did run into one of the older boys mentioned in a restaurant a few years ago. We talked briefly, but not about any of...this.

There is one other incident to mention as a possibility. I was hanging out with some distant cousins I barely knew and probably haven't seen more than 5 times in my life. I was the only boy. We were playing school and I got in trouble for talking and they had me sit in the punishment chair (they called it the "electric chair," I'm not going to try to guess how they came up with that one). One of them was moving behind me when my mom interrupted us. I have no idea if it was the case, but I have wondered if they were about to tie me to the chair. And I did think this before I discovered this site, but reading some stories here when I first found this place definitely got me thinking about it more. Most likely, I'm wrong, but I do wonder what they were planning.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Wed Dec 24, 2025 9:00 pm
by MrHunter01
Wow seems like you had quite the busy childhood. The only story I have is with my cousin and the neighbor's daughter. We were playing video games when she blurted out saying she was bored and wanted to play something else. So we all went to the shed in the backyard looking for some materials to make something. Then she stumbled across a bunch of rope. She then started acting like an old lady chasing out of the shed. We then took the hind and tied her up. Both me and him were surprised at how quickly she gave in since she's very dominant. We only tied her ankles, shins and hands behind with the rope. She was sitting in a chair in the middle of the room so she had plenty of room to struggle. We left he there for a few mins then untied her. No gag sadly, but it was fun nonetheless. I was about 12 and they were about 13/14.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2025 3:01 am
by Kyle
MrHunter01 wrote: 3 weeks ago Wow seems like you had quite the busy childhood. The only story I have is with my cousin and the neighbor's daughter. We were playing video games when she blurted out saying she was bored and wanted to play something else. So we all went to the shed in the backyard looking for some materials to make something. Then she stumbled across a bunch of rope. She then started acting like an old lady chasing out of the shed. We then took the hind and tied her up. Both me and him were surprised at how quickly she gave in since she's very dominant. We only tied her ankles, shins and hands behind with the rope. She was sitting in a chair in the middle of the room so she had plenty of room to struggle. We left he there for a few mins then untied her. No gag sadly, but it was fun nonetheless. I was about 12 and they were about 13/14.
Based on things I've seen and heard, I actually think TUGs are a fairly common experience, but I'd guess more people's experiences are like yours, one-off kinds of things that were simple. I'd guess the people who had lots of experiences are the exception. I do know at least one woman I met later in life who made a passing comment about getting tied up by her brothers, and implied it happened more than once.

Adding on about my own experiences, none of my childhood TUGs involved a gag, at all which immediately disqualifies them according to many people. Also, nothing ever lasted even five minutes. But I did have some experiences. The best bondage I ever saw didn't involve me, but I saw a girl get her hands tied behind her back in 8th grade. We had a Renaissance fair so she was wearing a (probably not periodically accurate) dress and really looked like a classic damsel in distress.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2025 7:35 am
by MrHunter01
Yeah I'm sure everyone has had atleast TUG experience. There was a similar experience of mine that also happened at school. We had a science project and every was assigned to bring some duct tape along with a few other things. Needless to say that some people were gagged for that period of the day lol. Another one was for one of the teacher's birthdays they wrap her up in tape against a pole a gag her pretty heavily. We all just walked passed her throughout the day and waved. Was definitely a fun way to end the school day.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2025 10:37 pm
by Racer
The first time I got tied up, was back in school, think I was around 13-14 years old.
I got tied to a tree by an another boy (a real school bully) and one of his friends. As I recall it, they had me really tight tied up with no chance escaping. My back against the tree and my hands tied behind the tree.
We grew up and had no contact at all. 20 years later I got married with my wife, and some years after we began playing hotwife/cuckold games. She suggested one of her ex. boyfriends to participate as the bull, because he was a badboy, dominat and really good tying others up. Then she managed a meetup with him, and I was really surprised. It was him, the school bully, the one who had me tied up many years ago. He had told my wife about our little tie up experience back then, so she knew about it.
Well it ended up, with me being tied up by him again…
And we are still playing with him, and he still ties me up.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Sat Dec 27, 2025 7:27 pm
by MrHunter01
It's funny how things just happen full circle lol. Although I have to say you're a stronger person than me. I always like reading about cuck stories especially if they're a bit unwanted, but actually being in that situation I'm way too aggressive for that haha. It's always great to read to about though as I find the experience more interesting and insightful than kinky. I feel like it helps me understand more about the kink community. So if you'd like to share some more cuck experiences that would be great!

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2026 11:39 pm
by TheBellyGirl
MrHunter01 wrote: 2 weeks ago Yeah I'm sure everyone has had atleast TUG experience. There was a similar experience of mine that also happened at school. We had a science project and every was assigned to bring some duct tape along with a few other things. Needless to say that some people were gagged for that period of the day lol. Another one was for one of the teacher's birthdays they wrap her up in tape against a pole a gag her pretty heavily. We all just walked passed her throughout the day and waved. Was definitely a fun way to end the school day.
That sounds like a very interesting experience! I never had anything like that at school - my experiences being tied and gagged were mostly with my cousins, and occasionally with a friend or sister. It was definitely formative!

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2026 1:04 am
by Silver_noro
I started TUG at 9 with my older brother as my captor.
Since then, I let only him to tie me up.
No other one.
My safety was the main reason and it was in my parents' rules (they knew about our games but they were cool because they fully trusted my brother, oh it was an open secret in family :lol: ).

We are very close and we still play, now with my husband, the other person I let to rope me up :lol: (unfortunately his rope skill are still far behind from my brother :lol: ).

I remember I was very nervous when I finally let my husband (he was my boyfriend at the time) to tie me up.
I don't know why, giving up my freedom to different person made me so anxious.
I was like "what will happen if he doesn't understand I need to be released?" because my brother can tell when to untie me even without me doing our signal.
I was so relieved when he told me he would had tied me with bro's overwatch just in case (I love their "bromance", ngl :lol: ).
Anyway let's say his first time was "not good" :lol: .

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2026 3:31 pm
by tiedinbluetights
TUGs have always been part of my life. If you check out my profile, you'll find the first story I ever wrote on this forum. I've mostly played with cousins but as we got older the games stopped, and we just don't talk about it as much older adults now. In fact, some of my cousins have now "gone beyond the veil."

While I have fond memories of TUGs growing up (never had the misfortune of a bad personal experience), I much prefer the memories I have created with my wife and exclusive captor.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2026 12:02 pm
by sami200456boyfriend
Me and my brothers always played when we were young.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2026 11:50 pm
by DerSvartHundr
For me I tied my uncles then girlfriend with scarves, which she was always a good sport about - it would have taken her seconds to escape of course because I was very young and not exactly a rigger!

As i got older I tied my cousins a few times, one where I was very much aware of my predisposition to this being more than a game! Growing up i had a handful of experiences that were way less than I wanted

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2026 1:10 am
by Jeff K
DerSvartHundr wrote: 1 week ago For me I tied my uncles then girlfriend with scarves


That might be the first time I've heard uncle's girlfriend as a first TUG partner for anyone.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2026 1:15 am
by DerSvartHundr
It was unusual - I must have been about 5 or 6 at most, but loved the DiD scenes in cartoons and the TV. I used to wrap wool scarves around her ankles, thighs and upper and lower arms pinning them to her body - and of course I would gag her! Even then I was a gag snob!

Way too young to get any feeling other than I liked seeing tied ladies - I am sure my Uncle who was only about 19 at the time got a lot of benefit though! I often wondered if I met Deborah again (her name btw) if I could talk her into being bound and gagged for "old times sake" :D

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2026 1:38 pm
by Gramshi
Unfortunately i've never had the occasion to tied up someone growing up, i had tied my cousin when i was young but my TUG stories stop there.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2026 5:29 pm
by TheBellyGirl
Gramshi wrote: 1 week ago Unfortunately i've never had the occasion to tied up someone growing up, i had tied my cousin when i was young but my TUG stories stop there.
That's too bad! I had the opposite experience, of being tied up by cousins.

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2026 5:47 pm
by DerSvartHundr
TheBellyGirl wrote: 1 week ago
Gramshi wrote: 1 week ago Unfortunately i've never had the occasion to tied up someone growing up, i had tied my cousin when i was young but my TUG stories stop there.
That's too bad! I had the opposite experience, of being tied up by cousins.
I enjoyed tying mine! :)

Re: TUG growing up

Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2026 8:13 pm
by Terry
Never had the chance to play TUGs growing up. Not found anyone back then either who was into that sort of thing either.