Stories of Tie Up Games

Ever since my first tie-up that I can remember at a very young age, to my bondage escapades with my wife and partner of over 30 years, and through all the self-bondage in-between, I've realized that there was one common element to them all: I always wore something tight or had to have something tightly binding my waist/abdomen.

To be more specific, if I didn't have tight clothes on, I had to have a rope or belt, tightly cinching my waist: it made me feel "secure" and "safe" in my bondage, regardless of how tightly or loosely other parts of me were tied.

As I grew older and eventually had purchasing power of my own, this grew into me buying long socks and eventually tights and leotards that were snug/tightly fitted to be incorporated into my "bondage-time" outfit. Eventually, I even got a waist cincher and bondage belt to lock it in place, and wife and I are now eyeing a proper "corset" for my masculine form that can be locked-on. Nothing makes me feel as lovingly possessed by my wife and as submissive and subservient to her as when she laces me up into my waist cincher and locks the bondage belt around it. She can leave the rest of me untied, and I'll just go about the house doing all the chores and executing every command, every desire, every whim of hers, to the letter, with nay a complaint.

Does any one else have a similar love or experiences with tight clothing and corsets?

I also share a love for tight clothing when it comes to TUGs.

Not necessarily corsets, but spandex/tights/any kind of form fitting fabric adds an additional sensory layer that I really enjoy, whether in the one doing the tying or being tied up myself. I think when I’m being tied, it’s more tactile/sensory but on the other side of the ropes, I just find tighter clothes more aesthetically pleasing as they can compliment the bindings very well.

I like to use corsets sometimes for bondage. It definitely adds another layer to the experience.

kiwi wrote: 3 weeks ago I also share a love for tight clothing when it comes to TUGs.

Not necessarily corsets, but spandex/tights/any kind of form fitting fabric adds an additional sensory layer that I really enjoy, whether in the one doing the tying or being tied up myself. I think when I’m being tied, it’s more tactile/sensory but on the other side of the ropes, I just find tighter clothes more aesthetically pleasing as they can compliment the bindings very well.

I absolutely have to agree with the spandex/tights; I actually wear a pair of tights and a leotard most of the times I'm tied-up. I just love the "additional sensory layer" as you put it. Compression hosiery and t-shirts have also become recent additions to my bondage wardrobe for a more masculine look when I'm tied-up.

captured_prize wrote: 3 weeks ago I like to use corsets sometimes for bondage. It definitely adds another layer to the experience.

Glad that I'm not the only one here who enjoys wearing them during TUGs If you don't mind my asking @captured_prize, how do you wear your corset for bondage? Over or under your clothes?

In my case I've always worn mine over a my leotard, which in turn I've worn over my tights. The corset is then held in place with a locked bondage belt, buckled just as tight. This way, I cannot remove my tights and leotard, nor really loosen my corset, until the belt is unlocked.

Ocassionally over, but mostly under. Technically the one I use for under my clothes is a waist cincher.

I like corsets and waist cinchers, mostly because when I dress up for it they give me more of a feminine form, especially combined properly with forms and hip pads. I do like them for particular outfits outside of clothing as well though.

I mean, I like being in tight leggings if that counts hahah

That's very cool @illest. Do you also tie yourself up or get tied up with rope or belts around your corsets/waste cinchers?

Tight leggings totally count @Bef I myself prefer footed tights and compression pantyhose for the added constriction of the toes, but I to(e)tally get why many prefer the toes to be able to freely wiggle individually (and have clear access to more ticklish spots!)

Tights totally add more to TUGs for me, especially superhero/superheroine tights. It started with the TV and movies I saw growing up: Superman, Supergirl, Wonder Woman, Electra Woman and Dyna Girl, and of course Batman, Robin, and Batgirl. Those actors and actresses looked really good in their spandex tights, and there was something about those heroes becoming vulnerable in bondage with those revealing outfits.

I now love taking up the confident persona of a superhero and then being bound wearing the spandex.

I really miss those olden day superheroes with their spandex outfits @rtbw. I wonder if the modern 'rubber-like' outfits are more constrictive or less than the spandex ones?

tiedinbluetights wrote: 2 weeks ago I really miss those olden day superheroes with their spandex outfits @rtbw. I wonder if the modern 'rubber-like' outfits are more constrictive or less than the spandex ones?

I've never tried the rubber-like outfits, but I have a feeling they're less comfortable and aren't very "breathable." I'm thinking they're more restrictive too. There's an athletic aspect of spandex allowing for better physical performance, which makes it that much more appropriate for superheroes. I don't think the rubber-type outfits have that that kind of physical movement in mind.

tiedinbluetights wrote: 3 weeks ago That's very cool @illest. Do you also tie yourself up or get tied up with rope or belts around your corsets/waste cinchers?

Tight leggings totally count @Bef I myself prefer footed tights and compression pantyhose for the added constriction of the toes, but I to(e)tally get why many prefer the toes to be able to freely wiggle individually (and have clear access to more ticklish spots!)

All the time, mainly because 98% of the time I crossdress is preparing for a bondage session. Most of the time it's rope but sometimes it's a combination of ropes and straps.

rtbw wrote: 2 weeks ago

tiedinbluetights wrote: 2 weeks ago I really miss those olden day superheroes with their spandex outfits @rtbw. I wonder if the modern 'rubber-like' outfits are more constrictive or less than the spandex ones?

I've never tried the rubber-like outfits, but I have a feeling they're less comfortable and aren't very "breathable." I'm thinking they're more restrictive too. There's an athletic aspect of spandex allowing for better physical performance, which makes it that much more appropriate for superheroes. I don't think the rubber-type outfits have that that kind of physical movement in mind.

There's a reason many athletes wear spandex and not rubber. Spandex can be skintight but will still allow you to move with little to no restrictions. Though some costume designers are probably pretty good at making outfits from other materials that can still work, a "real life" superhero would be much more likely to wear spandex than rubber.

Kyle wrote: 2 weeks ago ... a "real life" superhero would be much more likely to wear spandex than rubber.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks so! (or would hope so!)

tiedinbluetights wrote: 2 weeks ago

Kyle wrote: 2 weeks ago ... a "real life" superhero would be much more likely to wear spandex than rubber.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks so! (or would hope so!)

It's all fantasy, but spandex would work as well as anything. Or maybe something like cyclists wear. though I think a lot of them wear spandex, too.