Stories of Tie Up Games

I’ve only felt comfortable being tied by my girl friends and never my guy friends. I’m sure there’s a sociology explaining to that but I’ve just wondered if anyone has noticed a difference between the two?

Girls have always seem to enjoy just playing and teasing me, but I have a guy friend who says he enjoys the same.

I just wanted to know how this forums feels about the difference.

It’s a different dynamic, true.

When a girl ties you up, it could be that you’re more “relaxed” because it isn’t…hmm…undermining being “one of the guys?”

Sometimes guys like to give each other sh*t…and being tied up would be the sort of ammo they might use (just as an example).

Ladies always seem much more easy-going about that sort of thing, making it more socially comfortable.

However…and many on this site I’ve seen share this sentiment…there are instances where getting tied up by guys isn’t that big a deal; and doesn’t inherently imply a mutual attraction.

Part of that is emulating scenes from shows & movies…whether it’s gangsters, burglars, criminals; lots of programs show guys tying up other guys.

I know I played my share of tie up games growing up with other boys, and any time one of us was taken hostage; it’d be boys tying the others with rope or tape. It was just part of the game, whether it was commandos or cops & robbers.

Sometimes it’s based on mutual attraction; but not always.

That does create a certain degree of anxiety, however, given that the two circumstances are closely paralleled.