Stories of Tie Up Games

What is your favorite thing to do during TUGs? I mean those sort of additional things like hopping around, gag talk, trying to untie yourself ect. Or what do you like to see others do?

Well if I tied up a woman I would like to see them hop around and talk into their gag.
If I were tied up it would be talking into the gag and trying to escape.

Hopping around and gag-talk. Tickling is a close second.

Having a 'normal' (by which I mean non kinky, no reference towards the TUGs) conversation.

Just love the weird dynamic of talking, discussing everything and nothing all whilst one of us is bound.

RopeBunny wrote: 1 month ago Having a 'normal' (by which I mean non kinky, no reference towards the TUGs) conversation.

Just love the weird dynamic of talking, discussing everything and nothing all whilst one of us is bound.

What is truly more intimate than engaging in the mundane while at your most vulnerable?

RopeBunny wrote: 1 month ago Having a 'normal' (by which I mean non kinky, no reference towards the TUGs) conversation.

Just love the weird dynamic of talking, discussing everything and nothing all whilst one of us is bound.

This Despite all my kinky desires, just spendig quality time with my wife while I'm tied up, and otherwise having a normal conversation (what's for supper, where shall we go for vacation, etc.) is the best.

I agree with @AlexUSA3 that it is truly intimate. I'm not so sure, however, that people like reading about those mundane conversations that do occur in RL between caring TUG partners, so in my stories I jump to the kinky bits real fast.

When one of my two riggers don't mess with me like tickling or carrying me around like a bag, I love talking through my gag
I can have a normal "conversation" with my older brother because he easily understand me even if I can only just mmmphhing while my husband is still learning to decipher my meowing
I remember my hub's first serious TUG with me when I forgot to tell him what was the signal STOP I used to do with my bro.
I had to weep a little bit to let him know I needed a break

Other than that, I usually alternating between a "desperate" struggling trying to break and just laying down taking a break and enjoying the ropes.
Rinse and repeat.
If want to play, I randomly hopping around trying to see how much distance (in lap) I can cover before running out of my breath

Last but not least, for my two captors, I always let them play with my feet (rigorously with sheer pantyhose on).
They are both foot guys and I always end with a nice feet massage that almost always make me dooze off even if I'm tied and gagged.

Seems I hit upon an unexpected shared interest

AlexUSA3 wrote: 1 month ago

RopeBunny wrote: 1 month ago Having a 'normal' (by which I mean non kinky, no reference towards the TUGs) conversation.

Just love the weird dynamic of talking, discussing everything and nothing all whilst one of us is bound.

What is truly more intimate than engaging in the mundane while at your most vulnerable?

tiedinbluetights wrote: 1 month ago
This Despite all my kinky desires, just spendig quality time with my wife while I'm tied up, and otherwise having a normal conversation (what's for supper, where shall we go for vacation, etc.) is the best.

I agree with @AlexUSA3 that it is truly intimate. I'm not so sure, however, that people like reading about those mundane conversations that do occur in RL between caring TUG partners, so in my stories I jump to the kinky bits real fast.

Regarding whether others like reading such, in our various TUG stories. I'm afraid it is something I've included, and likely will do again

There's always time to engage in some random talking about the weather before the kinky bits happen

A few related activities come to mind. I like hopping around bound and gagged like others on here. It's fun to imagine I'm trying to escape only to be caught again. The other related activity is walking around with my ankles cuffed.

Such a great question!

I definitely enjoy pulling at my bonds. At first some quick tugs, then more legitimate attempts to get free. I love the feeling of realizing “yup…. No way out”

I also then do some gagged protests. Mostly to remind myself of my hopeless situation. Or to protest my gag - often my wife’s socks she wore all day stuffed and taped. Even after she goes back to ignoring me, i’ll still complain into my gag.

When I'm tied up?

Seems I'm not alone on the "hopping around" side of things. XD

I like pretending to be kidnapped, robbed, or taken hostage...so hopping around is usually accompanied by mock struggling, and a lot of bobbing my head while mumbling through the gag for help.

Fun to have a fellow hostage to struggle with & have gagged conversations with...amps up the fantasy.

Struggling and thrashing around fighting against my restraints is always fun, but gag talk has to be my favorite! Especially when muzzled, my mouth is taped, or when I am ball gagged and drooling with gag talk. It's so much fun.

Though it changes from time to time, this is my general ranking of things to do while tied:

1) My all time favorite is trying to escape, especially if there's a reward (tying and using partner up) or punishment (some kind of torture) for success/failure.

2) Edging / Sex - the more buildup the better. It's fun being driven incredibly horny only to be forever to wait and beg until my partner is ready

3) Torture - the breakdown of which tortures are best changes, but being tickled, doing breath play, and electro torture tend to rank high. Ice, nipple torture, stress positions, and light cbt can be fun too, and my bf has surprised me a few times by finding a way to make me love-hate something I thought I'd never like

4) Nothing - I'll tie myself up (my partner locks the final lock and holds the keys) when we watch tv or while he's working and I'm doing nothing. I usually prefer a more active scene, but sometimes he's not in the mood so this gets the job done. I'll often set a time that I ask him to release me, and there is fun in being forced to make good on my promises to myself. Recently he's started not releasing me at the time I request, but instead making me wait until he's ready, and that's added an extra layer of fun to the being tied up and left alone times. Occasionally long stretches of being tied up and doing nothing are finished with a more active scene, but not always.

5) Humiliation - My bf enjoys this more than me so I indulge him (especially since he indulges me in my many kinks) but I've never cared all that much about the humiliation side of kink. If it gets him in the mood though he can make fun of me / make me look like a mess / make me hobble around / punish me for tying myself up or wanting to be tied up etc

That's all I can think of, but I'm sure I missed something!

As a dom leaning switch, there's many things I enjoy. I enjoy just tying someone up and watching testing the restraints or just relaxing. Especially if sensory deprivation is involved. I also enjoy having a full on normal conversation when someone is tied up. Though I'd be lying if I said one sided conversations weren't fun to. And I love hearing gag talk and pretending I heard something other then what the sub is trying trying communicate. Even if I could hear them if I tried hard enough to listen (don't worry I always have a safeword or signal in place for urgent matters).
I've also started to like the idea of giving the sub a little bit of a message to help them relax and/or smooth any muscle tension while tied up.

Escape challenges, which is how I got into bondage, is still a core part of me and fun to incorporate into bondage. Rewards and punishment for escaping or failing is fun to.

Breathlay has been something I've been interested in since I officially got into bondage. Whether it's hand gagging a sub with my hand blocking their mouth and some of their noise. Or a gasmask where I can block off the air inlet or put a sock on the tube or socks in a pair of shoes with the gasmask hose. I want to get a rebreather bag to connect to a gas mask but haven't done so yet.

Tickling has become something I love to do to a sub. Especially if they are in sensory deprivation and have no idea if or when I could strike. Randomly poking them is fun to.

Electro (estim, tens unit....) is something I like for comfort but I've gotten into the idea of using it more to tease/torture. I don't like causing serious pain but anything from a slight discomfort upto maybe the higher end of mild is within my limits as dom.

I will dabble a little bit in some forms of humiliation but it's something i would only do if the sub wanted it anf if it's within my own limits.

As far as my switch side goes. I am not by any means a submissive person (I do not really like being told what to do nor letting anyone do whatever they want to me) but I do like being tied for mostly relaxing purposes. Light tickling is fine with me. I don't even mind light breathplay if I'm with some I have that level of trust with. I'm not into into feet or foot wear but controlling my air intake is fine.

There's definitely other things I haven't listed but my list of interests or things I'm curious about has grown in the last 5 years or so. But overall, just tying someone is my favorite part. The other stuff is just an added bonus!