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Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2025 9:27 am
by Sheriff
Hey all. Just want to share an experience and get some oppinions

So, for basically my entire life I've been into bondage but exclusively with women (wanting to tie them up or be tied up, depending on my mood). More recently though, I've been increasingly interested by the idea of being tied up by a guy, generally in quite a non-consensual and humiliating manner.

Has anyone else had anything like this?

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2025 11:22 am
by WrappedUp
This is exactly what I have been going through for the last few years.

I have very gradually become more interested in the idea of M/M and the fantasy of being kidnapped by an older man. For me I think it's the power and humiliation that's so exciting. It's at the point where this is one of my main fantasies, even thinking of it the other way around.

It's something I am enjoying exploring more in recent times.

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2025 12:47 pm
by Sheriff
Glad it's not just me!

If you don't mind me asking @WrappedUp , do you know what started these thoughts? Also, what sort of things do you fantasise about happening/whata re the scenarios?

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 7:29 am
by HandgaggedShut
Yeah, I definitely hear you on this one...

Over the last year or two I've been more interested in being tied by a guy.

For me I think it's something to do with the fact, I'm straight but the idea of being grabbed, stripped, tied and teased by a guy only accentuates the helplessness of the bondage because it then puts me in a scenario which ordinarily I wouldn't be in if I weren't tied and gagged...

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 8:14 am
by Sheriff
@HandgaggedShut

Completely with you. If that's happening to you then it means the bondage must be REALLY good otherwise you wouldn't let it be happening.

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 11:15 pm
by RotiferTape
I’ve been hesitant on that. A long time ago I had a not awesome experience being tied up by a man, that I won’t go into detail about. Since then I strongly preferred woman to tie me up, however, I am trying to learn how to trust again. I shouldn’t let one bad experience taint my entire view being bound by men.

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2025 1:33 pm
by BratBinder7
Good to see I'm not the only one :lol:

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2025 7:14 pm
by WillHBonney
I've also been feeling this over the past year. Like the OP, for most of my TUG life I've been strictly into tying up or being tied up by women, however recently I've started to become more open to the idea of being tied by a man. I've even written a story about it now, based on my fantasies that involve being tied by a man. I quite like the idea of someone older and stronger taking me as their little play toy to tightly tie up, gag and torment all while I'm helpless to do anything about it.

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2025 12:23 pm
by Knotted
Most probably your mind is branching out a bit to find out new and interesting things in connection with the bondage experiences. Not really something unusual as far as I know.

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men

Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2025 8:09 pm
by Terry
Have always felt like this and wanting to be tied up by other guys. Masked men appeal to me more.