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Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2025 11:32 pm
by guardian741
What has been your most humiliating TUG experience? Was it a particularly gross gag? Tied up in front of other people? Used as a foot stool? Forced to suck toes? Particularly embarrassing tie?

And - now that its over - did part of you enjoy it?


For me, i was hogtied and gagged by my wife on our bed. She pushed her feet into my face while she read - a normal occurrence. However, on this day her feet carried more of an odor than i was used to. I legitimately tried to pull my face away to escape the smell. My wife assumed i was doing my normal play-protesting and continued pressing them diligently into my face. I couldnt get my nose free enough and ultimately had to endure her - unpleasant to me at the time - stinky feet for another 15 minutes before i was finally ungagged. It was the first time i was forced to smell her feet when i DIDNT want to, so quite humiliating!

Of course, looking back on it now i reflect fondly on the domination element of it and kinda wish her feet would be extra smelly again!

How about you?

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2025 7:27 am
by illest
Mine was back in high school age where I had a self bondage session in my room but forgot to lock my room door so my mom caught me. To make matters worse I had used this small Pokemon blanket or fabric as a makeshift skirt. Yeah, it left me with a lot of explaining to do šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2025 7:30 am
by illest
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago What has been your most humiliating TUG experience? Was it a particularly gross gag? Tied up in front of other people? Used as a foot stool? Forced to suck toes? Particularly embarrassing tie?

And - now that its over - did part of you enjoy it?


For me, i was hogtied and gagged by my wife on our bed. She pushed her feet into my face while she read - a normal occurrence. However, on this day her feet carried more of an odor than i was used to. I legitimately tried to pull my face away to escape the smell. My wife assumed i was doing my normal play-protesting and continued pressing them diligently into my face. I couldnt get my nose free enough and ultimately had to endure her - unpleasant to me at the time - stinky feet for another 15 minutes before i was finally ungagged. It was the first time i was forced to smell her feet when i DIDNT want to, so quite humiliating!

Of course, looking back on it now i reflect fondly on the domination element of it and kinda wish her feet would be extra smelly again!

How about you?
I'm actually kind of jealous. There's this one asian bondage/femdom video from mid-2000s I watched where the woman had the bound guy's face duct taped to the bottom of both her feet and she was just toying with him. Always wanted to try that.

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2025 11:08 am
by WillHBonney
Mature warning:

I think my most humbling experience came a couple of years back. It was with a girl who I met on a dating app and had met up with a couple of times. We’d discussed bondage quite a lot so we both had an idea of what we were into.

She was staying over at my place one weekend and I decided I wanted to tie her up. So I cuffed her hands behind her back, tied her ankles together with rope then hogtied her with another rope. Then I added a ball gag and some nipple clamps, in their tightest setting. Finally I secured a vibrating wand to her inner thigh pressed against the sweet spot.
I left her lying on her front, feeling the intense vibrations as I circled her, occasionally spanking her exposed butt, or if I was feeling nice, some kisses. I can’t remember how long she was like that for but she came a few times before I untied her.

After she composed herself, it was her turn to tie me up. I was ordered to strip off entirely and sit on the chair in my office. Rather than use the handcuffs, she opted to use her well worn tights to secure my wrists together behind the chair. My ankles were tied with rope and I was gagged with the still saliva soaked ball gag that she wore. Once I was secured, she took her red lipstick and wrote on my chest ā€œProperty of NAMEā€ and also left several kiss marks on my body, cheeks, forehead and my ball gagged lips, leaving me looking like I was also wearing red lipstick.
But the humbler was the nipple clamps. Keeping them at the same tightness that I’d put on her, she clamped them on me and began pulling the chain. The clamps I owned had a chain that ran up to a material collar, which she had fastened around my neck. Once the clamps were on, I squirmed like crazy. Moaning into the gag at how painful they were. I didn’t give a safe signal, but was making it clear that I didn’t enjoy the clamps. She ignored my pleas and began teasing me with some kisses and touches whilst occasionally reminding me that the clamps were set to the same setting I used on her, and how she never moaned about them. Every now and then shed grab the chain in her fist and pull upwards, causing me to squeal in pain and try stand up out of the chair to reduce the tension on the clamps. IIRC I think she clamped her hand over my gagged mouth at one point too, to muffle my moans.

Eventually she made me an offer. She’d remove the clamps but I had to do what she said. I agreed with several nods. The clamps were removed with one final big yelp from me, followed by some smaller ones as she flicked and poked my sensitive nipples.
With the collar still on, she used the clamp chain like a lead and forced me to hop through to the bedroom where she positioned me kneeling on the floor and bent over the bottom of the bed. After a round of spanks, the gag was finally removed and a blindfold was added. Then she sat herself on the bed in front of me and I was forced to pleasure her with my mouth.
After she climaxed, she lay back on the bed and grabbed the wand and began using it on herself whilst I was still knelt at the bottom of the bed. Suddenly I felt her foot slide into my open mouth and I was forced to suck on her toes and lick her soles whilst she continued to enjoy the vibrations. After a final climax, she lay on the bed for maybe 5 minutes whilst I continued servicing her feet with my tongue before I was brought up onto the bed for some kisses and cuddling. Eventually she untied my hands and feet. And spent the rest of the night mocking me for my reaction to the clamps.

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Fri Jul 18, 2025 2:09 am
by guardian741
@illest that IS humiliating! Now that you mention it, i did have my mom walk in on a self bondage session as well. It is a REALLY awkward conversation. She still doesnt understand… we just agree to never bring it up again šŸ˜….

@WillHBonney amazing story! Glad you’re still an active user. Hopefully more stories coming!
That does sound pretty humiliating - ive never experienced nipple clamps, but they do sound embarrassing… and painful!
How was having to suck her toes and soles? Taste bad, or not too bad?

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Fri Jul 18, 2025 3:07 pm
by illest
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago @illest that IS humiliating! Now that you mention it, i did have my mom walk in on a self bondage session as well. It is a REALLY awkward conversation. She still doesnt understand… we just agree to never bring it up again šŸ˜….
Yep, pretty much my experience to the letter šŸ˜…

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Sat Jul 19, 2025 10:55 am
by WillHBonney
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago @WillHBonney amazing story! Glad you’re still an active user. Hopefully more stories coming!
That does sound pretty humiliating - ive never experienced nipple clamps, but they do sound embarrassing… and painful!
How was having to suck her toes and soles? Taste bad, or not too bad?
It was weird, I'd worn nipple clamps a few times before then and they'd never been that painful. Something about the way this girl put them on me just had me pleading for them to be removed. Looking back, I wish I hadn't tapped out so quickly and was able to bear them a little longer.
Sucking her feet was fine, a little difficult since she was moving them about a lot and curling her toes due to what she was doing to herself. They didn't taste that bad tbh, she looked after them and had recently done a footmask so they were pretty smooth. She lived pretty far away from me and had travelled down that day, spending about 4 hours on a bus whilst wearing tights and boots so I'd hoped they'd have been quite pungent but sadly they weren't.

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2025 2:34 pm
by guardian741
WillHBonney wrote: 1 month ago
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago @WillHBonney amazing story! Glad you’re still an active user. Hopefully more stories coming!
That does sound pretty humiliating - ive never experienced nipple clamps, but they do sound embarrassing… and painful!
How was having to suck her toes and soles? Taste bad, or not too bad?
It was weird, I'd worn nipple clamps a few times before then and they'd never been that painful. Something about the way this girl put them on me just had me pleading for them to be removed. Looking back, I wish I hadn't tapped out so quickly and was able to bear them a little longer.
Sucking her feet was fine, a little difficult since she was moving them about a lot and curling her toes due to what she was doing to herself. They didn't taste that bad tbh, she looked after them and had recently done a footmask so they were pretty smooth. She lived pretty far away from me and had travelled down that day, spending about 4 hours on a bus whilst wearing tights and boots so I'd hoped they'd have been quite pungent but sadly they weren't.
Sounds like a fun time! Have you had other humiliations with this woman, or was that the main one (for now?)

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2025 5:14 am
by Racer
Had been caught tied up and gagged twice. Was tied up as a part of a cuckold game, and got caught by a neighbor and a friend :o

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2025 9:25 am
by WillHBonney
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago Sounds like a fun time! Have you had other humiliations with this woman, or was that the main one (for now?)
Yeah it was a good, humbling experience. That was the only experience I had with her though, we stopped talking a few weeks after that. She was great at bondage but we never really had anything else in common plus she lived too far away :lol:

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2025 9:37 pm
by Rtj65
Not so much the experience itself but more the aftermath, but I once had an ex tie me to the bed and do a load of housework while I was stuck there. For the next few days, she would keep teasing me about not helping her around house enough etc., and when I'd try to explain why I hadn't been able to, she'd pretend not to know what I was talking about while giving me this shit-eating grin. It was just a small bit of teasing, but it was very effective. And kind of humbling too, because that dynamic was normally reversed between us, so I kind of got a taste of my own medicine there.

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 9:02 am
by guardian741
Rtj65 wrote: 1 month ago Not so much the experience itself but more the aftermath, but I once had an ex tie me to the bed and do a load of housework while I was stuck there. For the next few days, she would keep teasing me about not helping her around house enough etc., and when I'd try to explain why I hadn't been able to, she'd pretend not to know what I was talking about while giving me this shit-eating grin. It was just a small bit of teasing, but it was very effective. And kind of humbling too, because that dynamic was normally reversed between us, so I kind of got a taste of my own medicine there.
Haha, i love that! Were you gagged? (How?) how long did she leave you like that?
There is some so fun and humiliating about your captor going about their day like normal while you’re…unable to. 😈 Did she attempt this again?

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2025 9:04 pm
by Rtj65
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago
Rtj65 wrote: 1 month ago Not so much the experience itself but more the aftermath, but I once had an ex tie me to the bed and do a load of housework while I was stuck there. For the next few days, she would keep teasing me about not helping her around house enough etc., and when I'd try to explain why I hadn't been able to, she'd pretend not to know what I was talking about while giving me this shit-eating grin. It was just a small bit of teasing, but it was very effective. And kind of humbling too, because that dynamic was normally reversed between us, so I kind of got a taste of my own medicine there.
Haha, i love that! Were you gagged? (How?) how long did she leave you like that?
There is some so fun and humiliating about your captor going about their day like normal while you’re…unable to. 😈 Did she attempt this again?
Thanks, I was gagged with a sock and a scarf as I recall, so yeah, couldn't complain! I was probably tied somewhere around a couple of hours, and she was off doing housework for about half that time. Was definitely frustrating, especially when she'd come back into the bedroom to do something and have a little dig at me.

And yeah, sometimes it's the simplest, littlest things that are the most effective! That situation was just a one-off, actually, but still a memorable one!

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 9:32 am
by guardian741
Rtj65 wrote: 1 month ago
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago
Rtj65 wrote: 1 month ago Not so much the experience itself but more the aftermath, but I once had an ex tie me to the bed and do a load of housework while I was stuck there. For the next few days, she would keep teasing me about not helping her around house enough etc., and when I'd try to explain why I hadn't been able to, she'd pretend not to know what I was talking about while giving me this shit-eating grin. It was just a small bit of teasing, but it was very effective. And kind of humbling too, because that dynamic was normally reversed between us, so I kind of got a taste of my own medicine there.
Haha, i love that! Were you gagged? (How?) how long did she leave you like that?
There is some so fun and humiliating about your captor going about their day like normal while you’re…unable to. 😈 Did she attempt this again?
Thanks, I was gagged with a sock and a scarf as I recall, so yeah, couldn't complain! I was probably tied somewhere around a couple of hours, and she was off doing housework for about half that time. Was definitely frustrating, especially when she'd come back into the bedroom to do something and have a little dig at me.

And yeah, sometimes it's the simplest, littlest things that are the most effective! That situation was just a one-off, actually, but still a memorable one!
Thats awesome!
Last question, was the sock one of hers and was it used? Did the taste add to your humiliation?
That would be the cherry on top!

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2025 3:07 pm
by Rtj65
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago
Rtj65 wrote: 1 month ago
guardian741 wrote: 1 month ago

Haha, i love that! Were you gagged? (How?) how long did she leave you like that?
There is some so fun and humiliating about your captor going about their day like normal while you’re…unable to. 😈 Did she attempt this again?
Thanks, I was gagged with a sock and a scarf as I recall, so yeah, couldn't complain! I was probably tied somewhere around a couple of hours, and she was off doing housework for about half that time. Was definitely frustrating, especially when she'd come back into the bedroom to do something and have a little dig at me.

And yeah, sometimes it's the simplest, littlest things that are the most effective! That situation was just a one-off, actually, but still a memorable one!
Thats awesome!
Last question, was the sock one of hers and was it used? Did the taste add to your humiliation?
That would be the cherry on top!
Was one of hers but was just a clean one on this occasion!

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2025 10:01 am
by BandG
Easily when i was 24.

I (M) was dating and Irish nurse.

She lived with 4 other women in a flat share, all similar age as us.

She tied me up on her bed in her room in a hogtied with scarves. I was just in my underwear. She blindfolded me with an eye mask and then gagged me with a pair of her panties cleave gagged.

She then left me to take a shower but hadn't locked her bedroom door.

I then hear one of her flatmates open the door and gasp, she then says she's just returning my ex's hair straightener and apologies. I just mumbled into the gag. She laughed and walked out the room.

It was always very awkward seeing her after that but my ex and I split up about a month later anyway.

Thinking back on it now it was kind of hot, she was very good looking.

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2025 1:21 pm
by BratBinder7
BandG wrote: 1 month ago Easily when i was 24.

I (M) was dating and Irish nurse.

She lived with 4 other women in a flat share, all similar age as us.

She tied me up on her bed in her room in a hogtied with scarves. I was just in my underwear. She blindfolded me with an eye mask and then gagged me with a pair of her panties cleave gagged.

She then left me to take a shower but hadn't locked her bedroom door.

I then hear one of her flatmates open the door and gasp, she then says she's just returning my ex's hair straightener and apologies. I just mumbled into the gag. She laughed and walked out the room.

It was always very awkward seeing her after that but my ex and I split up about a month later anyway.

Thinking back on it now it was kind of hot, she was very good looking.
I find a lot of embarrassing things end up just being funny stories after enough time has passed. Im sure id be dying inside if this happened to me, but im still jealous of you :lol:

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2025 2:57 pm
by guardian741
BandG wrote: 1 month ago Easily when i was 24.

I (M) was dating and Irish nurse.

She lived with 4 other women in a flat share, all similar age as us.

She tied me up on her bed in her room in a hogtied with scarves. I was just in my underwear. She blindfolded me with an eye mask and then gagged me with a pair of her panties cleave gagged.

She then left me to take a shower but hadn't locked her bedroom door.

I then hear one of her flatmates open the door and gasp, she then says she's just returning my ex's hair straightener and apologies. I just mumbled into the gag. She laughed and walked out the room.

It was always very awkward seeing her after that but my ex and I split up about a month later anyway.

Thinking back on it now it was kind of hot, she was very good looking.
Wow! I agree thats pretty humiliating! But also agree that it was kinda hot! 😁
Its fun to think about what wouldve happened if she decided to stick around for a few minutes…
Thanks for sharing!

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2025 7:27 pm
by PiggyBoy
I wrote a story about it years ago. My sisters kept me hogtied all weekend and tortured me in various ways. Lots of tickling, feet smelling, feet licking, an XL binder clip glued in my nose stretching it out to the max, sensory deprivation, etc. They took lots of videos and photos for blackmail. They still have them saved on a flash drive. I looked ridiculous and it was the most helpless I ever felt.

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2025 9:10 pm
by Tiemetighthogtie
PiggyBoy wrote: 2 weeks ago I wrote a story about it years ago. My sisters kept me hogtied all weekend and tortured me in various ways. Lots of tickling, feet smelling, feet licking, an XL binder clip glued in my nose stretching it out to the max, sensory deprivation, etc. They took lots of videos and photos for blackmail. They still have them saved on a flash drive. I looked ridiculous and it was the most helpless I ever felt.

Any pictures you’d be willing to show? Usually with sensory deprivation there is enough of the face covered that I am not recognizable. Interested in the binder clip thing, that’s new.

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2025 12:44 pm
by PiggyBoy
Tiemetighthogtie wrote: 2 weeks ago
PiggyBoy wrote: 2 weeks ago I wrote a story about it years ago. My sisters kept me hogtied all weekend and tortured me in various ways. Lots of tickling, feet smelling, feet licking, an XL binder clip glued in my nose stretching it out to the max, sensory deprivation, etc. They took lots of videos and photos for blackmail. They still have them saved on a flash drive. I looked ridiculous and it was the most helpless I ever felt.

Any pictures you’d be willing to show? Usually with sensory deprivation there is enough of the face covered that I am not recognizable. Interested in the binder clip thing, that’s new.
Not really, no. Only one is one of me where they're pulling a pair of used pantyhose over my head outside. šŸ˜‚

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Wed Aug 20, 2025 1:21 am
by Estelle
A ring gag and being forced to deep throat a big dildo. Was humiliating to choke and slobber so much.

Re: Most Humiliating/Humbling Experience

Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2025 3:05 pm
by PiggyBoy
Estelle wrote: 1 week ago A ring gag and being forced to deep throat a big dildo. Was humiliating to choke and slobber so much.
Yeah that does sound pretty humiliating. Any gags that make you drool like crazy are. šŸ˜‚