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Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2025 2:15 pm
by meacham6
I don't mean a tie-up position that's sooo uncomfortable, you hate it sooo much, it's tortuuure, because we all know that means you really like it.
I mean a tie-up position that doesn't get you nearly as excited as other positions do. If there's a story with someone tied like that, you skip through it. If there's a video or image of someone tied like that, you don't watch it. If someone offered to tie you or be tied by you like that, you just might pass (but wouldn't). Is there a tie-up position like that for you, or do you get excited about everything?
For me, I'm not interested in chair ties. It's just not my cup of tea.
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2025 3:54 pm
by wannabetiedup
Anything that's too loose. For example a chain connecting ankles that still allows some degree of walking. Being tethered to a fixed point by a long chain on a collar but otherwise the person is unbound. I want the bondage to be tight and restrictive, and feeling or seeing a degree of freedom is not a good look!
Oh, and chair ties are the best lol
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2025 4:48 pm
by meacham6
wannabetiedup wrote: 1 day ago
Anything that's too loose. For example a chain connecting ankles that still allows some degree of walking. Being tethered to a fixed point by a long chain on a collar but otherwise the person is unbound. I want the bondage to be tight and restrictive, and feeling or seeing a degree of freedom is not a good look!
Oh, and chair ties are the best lol
Every now and then, I'll see a hogtie with a foot or more of rope between the wrists and ankles and wonder what the point of that rope is at all.
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2025 5:42 pm
by copperfox
I am a fan of totally inescapable bondage, so my least favorite positions are those in which it’s possible to escape. An obvious example of this would be hands tied in front with easy access to locks or knots, or with non-locking cuffs. I also get annoyed at how thin or brittle looking some locking buckles on leather cuffs can be. I’ve really never tried (because I don’t want to actually break any gear), but I’ve always wondered how easy it would be to twist the lock on a locked cuff such that the metal on the cuff breaks. Maybe they’re sturdier than I give them credit for, but that’s another reason I generally like to also be wearing locking leather mitts.
If I’m just relaxing, watching TV, or whatever, and just want to be wearing cuffs or in some type of bondage, that’s one thing. However, If I’m going to an hour or two long session—I want to be able to struggle all I want without any possibility of escape.
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2025 6:17 pm
by gaggedrock29
Hogties are brutal on my hamstrings
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2025 6:27 pm
by copperfox
meacham6 wrote: 1 day ago
wannabetiedup wrote: 1 day ago
Anything that's too loose. For example a chain connecting ankles that still allows some degree of walking. Being tethered to a fixed point by a long chain on a collar but otherwise the person is unbound. I want the bondage to be tight and restrictive, and feeling or seeing a degree of freedom is not a good look!
Oh, and chair ties are the best lol
Every now and then, I'll see a hogtie with a foot or more of rope between the wrists and ankles and wonder what the point of that rope is at all.
While we’re at it…add to that list ineffective gags. I get irrationally annoyed when I’m watching a show and someone’s gagged with just a simple strip of cloth (or worse, just cloth tied over the mouth) and is “Mmmmphing”. I’m like…lady, you can still speak.

Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2025 8:25 pm
by wannabetiedup
meacham6 wrote: 1 day ago
wannabetiedup wrote: 1 day ago
Anything that's too loose. For example a chain connecting ankles that still allows some degree of walking. Being tethered to a fixed point by a long chain on a collar but otherwise the person is unbound. I want the bondage to be tight and restrictive, and feeling or seeing a degree of freedom is not a good look!
Oh, and chair ties are the best lol
Every now and then, I'll see a hogtie with a foot or more of rope between the wrists and ankles and wonder what the point of that rope is at all.
Yes. I was going to include that as well. Useless having a non-taut rope there!
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2025 4:52 am
by myaltbob2
i like the feeling of tightness and security like a super constricting hug so spread eagle is like the antithesis to all of that
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2025 12:26 pm
by KidnappedCowboy
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2025 4:07 pm
by Detective-Gag
Ya know…there isn’t really a “position” I particularly dislike.
My preferences really just boil down to “soft” bondage over “heavy”…not a fan of anything leather, ballgags, locks, or chains (a pair of handcuffs is about as metal as I’d go).
But positions?
I can dig ‘em all…provided we’re dealing with rope, cloth or tape.
Balltied, hands over head, hogtie, chairtie, back-to-back, taped to a steering wheel, bundled in a trunk, against a post, laying in a bed, cross tied, dangling from ceiling, wrists against ankles…you name it.
Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2025 9:54 pm
by tiedinbluetights
Hmm, I would have to go with either balltied or hogtied, unless the person (hopefully me) is also tied tethered to some heavy object or furniture so they can't squirm or roll away, in which case it would then be spread-eagle.
Basically, as
@copperfox wrote, I too like my bondage to be totally inescapable, and I am also a fan of tight, constrictive bondage that as
@myaltbob2 writes, feels like a constricting hug. I can get that feeling when chair-tied, with overkill on the amount of ropes used to pin me to the chair, but not when spreadeagled or tied in a such a way that I can roll away or squirm away (even if it's really futile) from whatever torturous ministrations my lovely wife would care to inflict upon my bound form.

Re: Do you have a LEAST favorite tie-up position?
Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2025 4:17 am
by The WinterShuffle
I’ve never been a big fan of spread eagle bondage. Like I know that from a technical perspective, it’s one of the most difficult to escape from, as all your limbs are pulled apart from each other, and it definitely leaves you open to some fun activities.
But as a fan of overkill or layered bondage, once I’m tied to the bed there’s not much else that can be done to satisfy that craving I have for more. I guess you could tape the hands into mittens, or use bondage mitts, but I prefer positions where more bondage can almost always be added