Stories of Tie Up Games

If you could live your life again how would you others bring to tie you up without showing your love of bondage.

For example, when I was a child, I played police with my neighbor. if i could relive that time i would definitely have bought a pair of handcuffs

If I could do it again,
(1) There are two or three people I really hurt along the way. Don't do that again.
(2) Push to leave my mothers house so that I could enjoy TUGs with college friends while we're still young and energetic and willing to do crazy things.

A few things I’d do differently in my bondage experiences:

- when I had a sexual fling with an attractive friend of mine, I would have brought bondage to the table. Once the fling was over and she found a boyfriend I THEN learned that she was already into bondage and would have played with me, but it was too late.

- I had an unfortunate TUG that ended badly due to massive irresponsibility on my part. I will always regret that and wish it never happened or that I could fix it.

- over the course of my marriage I should/would have communicated my passion for bondage better with my wife. The end result could have either been more bondage with the wife, or an earlier end to my marriage without all the pain and heartache that came from the way I actually handled things.

Yeah none of that is very happy, but that’s why I want to redo it, right?

If I could do it again, I would love to find a way to do more crossdressing and bondage while I was in college. It wouldn't have been easy to do so, but I'm sure I could have found a way. With proper makeup and crossdressing techniques, 20 year old me probably could've passed for a biological woman. Also, having more self bondage sessions would have greatly helped with my stress levels in college.

If the question is, "If I could go back in time, how would I get people to tie me up without revealing that I like bondage?"--then I first want to have a discussion about the very question itself. Let me explain.

Knowing what I know now (at 40+ years old)--I wouldn't care that people knew that I was into bondage. Or, at the very least, I would try much harder than I did to just be comfortable with who I am, and to feel more confident that my friends would love and accept me just the same.

Though I've been "into bondage" (not that I knew what that was) and had been tying myself up since I was about four, it wasn't until college that I began to open up a bit about my kink to my friends. The path I took was passive and kinda slow--I'd pinned a pair of handcuffs to a cork board on a wall in my room. Fast forward a year or so later--and just about everyone in my friend group knew that I liked to be handcuffed...a lot. However, only a couple of my closest friends really knew how important kink/bondage really was (and is) to me--and that it wasn't just fun and games, but also a part of my core identity.

So...back to the question at hand. What might I have done differently? I would hope that I'd be more open and communicative with my friends, as well as be more active in trying to find like-minded people that shared my same interests. Life is too short to worry about what other people think! And—it’s taken me a lot longer than it should have—but I’ve realized that if anybody actually had anything negative to say about it (which they didn’t)—it doesn’t matter! People come and go in your life—and that’s okay. Not everyone will “click” with you. But the true friendships that you make along the way are with people who know and love you (the real you)—no matter what. And those friendships are priceless.

I sometimes wonder what other friendships could have been made during my younger years, as well as opportunities realized, if I hadn’t cared about what others thought as much.

I often daydream about redoing my whole life.. in terms of tug stuff.. not sure