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Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2025 8:45 am
by nm101
I'm a straight man who's recently been open to the idea of being tied by another man. For me it certainly adds to the helplessness, like I might willingly submit to a woman capturing me but a man I'd resist, and he'd overpower me and keep me feeling even more humiliated as a prisoner.
Bonus points if it's a sort of hostage scenario, like I'm tied by him and someone has to come to my rescue, or give him some favour to ensure I'm released and not tormented in any way. Say a woman rescuing me has to send him lingerie photos, or pay him or just rescue me.
Another scenario I'd find quite hot is if there was a woman who wanted to kidnap me, but she didn't do it herself, she hired one or two guys to do it for her, keeping me helpless and bound for her and they follow her orders on what to do with/to me.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2025 4:22 pm
by Tied&TickledInTights
When I was younger - I was always the one doing the tying - as long as my "victim" was wearing tights/pantyhose/sheer socks. I always wanted to tie up women - and be tied by them on a rare occasion. When it became difficult to find women that like bondage, much less wearing tights or pantyhose while being tied, I started seeking out CDs. I've tied a few CDs, and have only been tied by a fellow leotard and tights fetish male - although not helplessly at all. I don't dress beyond tights and leoatrds, but would love to be overpowered and tied up by several men. I'm 6'4" and 285, so it would take a few guys to subdue me and tie me up - then tickle me while I struggle...
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2025 4:27 pm
by Tied&TickledInTights
Jeffpa1967 wrote: 5 months ago
I've always wanted to be forcibly tied by a small group of men. One where I really am trying to not be bound. I've done it one on one but didn't really fight back too hard.
Plus it's fairly easy to avoid with one person.
Depending how large you are - I might be able to wrestle you into bondage - and it would be fun trying
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2025 7:36 pm
by Sheriff
I love the idea of a guy forcing me to CD then tying me up

double humiliation!
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2025 8:23 pm
by Jeffpa1967
Tied&TickledInTights wrote: 4 months ago
Jeffpa1967 wrote: 5 months ago
I've always wanted to be forcibly tied by a small group of men. One where I really am trying to not be bound. I've done it one on one but didn't really fight back too hard.
Plus it's fairly easy to avoid with one person.
Depending how large you are - I might be able to wrestle you into bondage - and it would be fun trying
Would be fun. I want to really fight it too. I did it once but I wanted to be tied up so I didn't fight as hard as I could.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2025 8:24 pm
by Jeffpa1967
Sheriff wrote: 4 months ago
I love the idea of a guy forcing me to CD then tying me up

double humiliation!
Yesssss. I would love that.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2025 8:59 pm
by Tied&TickledInTights
Jeffpa1967 wrote: 4 months ago
Sheriff wrote: 4 months ago
I love the idea of a guy forcing me to CD then tying me up

double humiliation!
Yesssss. I would love that.
Sounds like I need to get two sets of pantyhose and dresses (very short or thong leotards) for each of you - I'd force both of you to dress and then I have Sheriff tie up Jeff - very tightly with my help - then I'd tie up Sheriff and tie you both to each other. After a few hours of teasing, I would untie you both - and start again with Jeff tying up Sheriff...
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2025 2:22 am
by NR47
Yeah, I've had this fantasy for a long time of getting ambushed by the other guys in the locker room shower in highschool (btw, that was more than 20 years ago for me!) So they grab me and throw me on a bench and use their belts to tie me down. Then a jockstrap (a clean one!) is shoved in my mouth and duct tape is wrapped around my mouth gagging me thoroughly. Then someone takes a belt and starts to beat my ass. They all leave the room laughing with me still strapped to the bench and gagged.
And yes, I do consider myself to be primarily straight!))
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Mon Sep 08, 2025 8:26 am
by Sheriff
Tied&TickledInTights wrote: 4 months ago
Sounds like I need to get two sets of pantyhose and dresses (very short or thong leotards) for each of you - I'd force both of you to dress and then I have Sheriff tie up Jeff - very tightly with my help - then I'd tie up Sheriff and tie you both to each other. After a few hours of teasing, I would untie you both - and start again with Jeff tying up Sheriff...
Big fan of this idea XD
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Wed Sep 10, 2025 2:06 pm
by captured_prize
As long as things stay non-sexual, I'm perfectly fine with men tying me up. In fact, when I fantasize about being kidnapped, I usually imagine my captors to be male.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2025 2:47 am
by FacelessMage
There's something extra exciting about being tied up by a guy. I love doing scenes with ladies, but experiencing that male power exchange especially during a captured/forced scene is just wicked hot
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2025 5:09 pm
by GaggableBoy
I've had a fantasy of being kidnapped by a man for a long time. I think it would be really hot and I'd feel truly helpless.
I consider myself straight but I go weak thinking of this scenario

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Sun Sep 28, 2025 11:57 pm
by Vanguards
I guess depending on the scenario I wouldnāt mind.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Oct 02, 2025 6:08 am
by Kyle
Although most interest I have is tying up or being tied up by a woman, there are some scenarios I imagine myself getting captured by men. One I've liked since a kid is getting suddenly overpowered and restrained by a group of guys, where even if I could recover enough to resist, they'd be able to forcibly tie me up. This could work with a group of women, but my mind usually imagines it being done by men.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Oct 16, 2025 11:59 am
by Sheriff
Something I've been thinking about recently is finding someone to do a remote session with, where a guy orders me to dress up and tie myself up, either live or ordering me to make a video for him. Obviously, a face-to-face would be more fun, but I'm always concerned about men on the internet XD
I've also thought about trying to find a bondage clips studio that does male bondage and applying to be a model.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Wed Dec 31, 2025 7:31 am
by Racer
I have almost always been tied up by other guys. The only women who have tied me up were an ex-girlfriend and now my wife. A few years ago I was tied up by 4 guys against my will, and that's when I really felt their strength and power. After a break from the tying up games, I'm back and have been tied up by several guys since.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Fri Jan 02, 2026 11:22 pm
by Rtj65
Kind of scenario dependent, but I can definitely see the appeal. Part of the appeal of helplessness is that you don't get to choose who is tying you (in terms of fantasy, anyway) - in terms of kidnappings and the like, it's quite exciting to think that your captor could be anyone. It opens up a few different dynamics as well, which is nice.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2026 12:12 am
by Detective-Gag
Not opposed.
Iāve always enjoyed the ānarrativeā appeal of getting tied & gagged.
Thus, a bunch of male goons fits with the bulk majority of scenarios where Iām likely taken hostage.
Even better if thereās a lady getting kidnapped along side me. : )
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2026 10:21 am
by Sheriff
@Racer Oooo, how did that end up happening?
@Rtj65 Agreed! For me, a big part of the appeal is that I don't really want to be tied up by a guy, which paradoxically means I think I'd really enjoy it!
@Detective-Gag I like that thought! I often fantasise about the guys tying me up and then my wife getting tied up alongside me.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2026 2:42 pm
by Racer
Sheriff wrote: 2 weeks ago
@Racer Oooo, how did that end up happening?
@Rtj65 Agreed! For me, a big part of the appeal is that I don't really want to be tied up by a guy, which paradoxically means I think I'd really enjoy it!
@Detective-Gag I like that thought! I often fantasise about the guys tying me up and then my wife getting tied up alongside me.
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Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2026 4:35 pm
by tiedinbluetights
In my case, I wouldn't say it ever was suddenly. I've always wanted to be tied up, period. As an adult, I consider myself an over 99% cis-heterosexual male, but I've had, and still have on occasion, the odd 1 in 100 fantasy of being tied up by a man. However, not in a non-consensual way, only consensual.
Prior to adulthood, and any association with sexuality, most of my tie-up games were with male cousins (a few did involve female cousins, both as captors and as captives), so gender was never a huge issue, even if I would have preferred it to be my female cousins over my male cousins tying me up.
Since in real-life I'm life-time monogamous, sworn faithful and solely to my lovely wife-mistress, I've only ever been tied up by her since we've hooked up. While for me it is mostly non-sexual, being tied-up as an adult nevertheless has the potential to become sexually titillating, if not out-right sexual. Hence, I have been fantasizing about being tied up, even in a potentially and consensually sexual way on some rare occasions, by all types of men even before I've met my wife.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2026 8:58 am
by Rtj65
Sheriff wrote: 2 weeks ago
@Rtj65 Agreed! For me, a big part of the appeal is that I don't really want to be tied up by a guy, which paradoxically means I think I'd really enjoy it!
Yeah, absolutely, I think that's part of the appeal! There's definitely kind of a counter intuitive aspect to it, wanting to try something without really knowing what it would feel like beforehand
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2026 6:07 pm
by Ducttape1234
Ive always considered myself straight, but yeah I've been wanting to be tied up by a guy. I haven't really been tied up properly since I was a teenager but id actually love to be tied up by a guy if it was just for fun

Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2026 11:09 pm
by Chairtiedguy
I'm straight, but I have been tied up more by men than women. I have had this situation because I wanted to be an escape artist, and most of the time it was man who felt they had a point to prove. Nothing but challenges. Had a lot of fun, and preferred men to do the tying. There is a difference I found out between the way women tie and men tie. Both are challenging. But if the opportunity comes up get challenged again, I will go for it.
Re: Suddenly wanting to be tied up by men
Posted: Tue Jan 13, 2026 5:42 pm
by Estherthedresser
As a malw crossdresser I always wanted to be tied by a woman. But then a couple of weeks ago a man wrote me on a BDSM website, proposing to get to know each with the possibility of becoming his sissysub and the thought was strangely stimulating. All I ever wanted was to crossdress and be tied, so I might not really need a woman. Nothing came of this specific contact but I have definitely expanded my search criteria since.