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First bondage item bought
First was just nylon rope. And from there.... 

- Flyingvulture
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Besides duct tape, I think the first bondage Item was either a ballgag or fabric handcuffs.
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Duct Tape
A black rubber ballgag from a local store. Was really odd going into a place like that back then.
When I first got my own place, my first order was for several pairs of S&W handcuffs and ankle cuffs. That was about 20 years ago, and I still have (and use!) all of them. I think my second order was for a a couple hundred dollars worth of gear (gags, leather cuffs, hood) from sub-shop.com. I ordered some really inexpensive stuff, so it didn’t take long for everything to wear out. However, that was the start of my collection, and I was able to figure out what I really liked and what I didn’t care for.
After that, I think my next couple purchases were from Mr. S Leather…and that was a bit more expensive. I still have my first couple pairs of locking leather cuffs from them…and while they’re definitely worn (err…lovingly broken in), they still do the job quite well!
After that, I think my next couple purchases were from Mr. S Leather…and that was a bit more expensive. I still have my first couple pairs of locking leather cuffs from them…and while they’re definitely worn (err…lovingly broken in), they still do the job quite well!
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Pretty sure my first purchased item was a pack of colored bandanas.
Second item was probably a roll of duct tape (after having “borrowed†some pieces from the random roll at home; I knew I’d probably want my own supply).
Got a pair of fake handcuffs, curiously, from a Dave & Busters prize shop when I was young.
Second item was probably a roll of duct tape (after having “borrowed†some pieces from the random roll at home; I knew I’d probably want my own supply).
Got a pair of fake handcuffs, curiously, from a Dave & Busters prize shop when I was young.
A bag of black plastic zipties from Bunnings. Because learning how to tie knots takes time and practice.
White nylon rope from the hardware store.
- tiedinbluetights
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That was exactly my first purchase too

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Aside from nylon ropes of varying colours, the first pure 'this is obviously bondage' item i purchased was a red ball gag. Always loved how they looked when a woman was wearing them in the videos online. Alas my wife isn't a fan, but she uses it on myself regularly. Recently I found a panel gag that had a half-ball gag on it instead of a penis - so that was purchased.
I bought some sticky tape when I was young, it would keep my parents from being suspicious
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The first bondage gear I ever bought myself was tape and handcuffs.
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I just made my first true bondage gear purchase this week. A set of learher bondage belts and a harness ball gag
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I usually just tape myself up but I got a rope today!
A ball gag. Bought it right after I turned 18 and could legally go into a sex shop (internet shopping wasn't a thing then). Was super embarrassed!
Rope obviously 
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A spandex sack that I got through an ad in a Harmony magazine. I remember that bondage model Laural Blake modeled in the ad.
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A leather hood, leather cuffs ankle and wrist, a spiked chastity cage for my SLAVE BOI.


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- HandgaggedShut
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I've been into bondage for years but its only this year that I finally ended up buying a ballgag and bondage tape...well worthwhile purchases!
Congrats on your first purchases, @HandgaggedShut! What do you plan on buying next? It’s an incredibly fun hobby (and passion!), but can get expensive…but soooo worth it.HandgaggedShut wrote: 1 month ago I've been into bondage for years but its only this year that I finally ended up buying a ballgag and bondage tape...well worthwhile purchases!

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Thanks! tbh i haven't given it much thought and a lot of the more what I class as 'heavy' bondage items like cuffs etc don't interest me. Chances are I'll run out of bondage tape and have to buy more haha.copperfox wrote: 1 month agoCongrats on your first purchases, @HandgaggedShut! What do you plan on buying next? It’s an incredibly fun hobby (and passion!), but can get expensive…but soooo worth it.HandgaggedShut wrote: 1 month ago I've been into bondage for years but its only this year that I finally ended up buying a ballgag and bondage tape...well worthwhile purchases!![]()
If i ever found anyone to tie me irl i suppose i could be convinced to buy a blindfold but for the time being when i'm just receiving instructions online I kinda have to see the messages!
It was a three pack of rope on Amazon to tie up my ex and a shibari book to accompany it.
Turned into a few fun nights but it was hard to find a time to do the full production and the longer we were together the less it happened. Usually I just used our clothes to tie her wrists and to gag/blindfold her.
Turned into a few fun nights but it was hard to find a time to do the full production and the longer we were together the less it happened. Usually I just used our clothes to tie her wrists and to gag/blindfold her.
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Mine was handcuffs, I wanted to experience proper bondage for the first time, so being locked away was something i craved. I learnt later I preferred the dominant side, but it was a fun first experience x
It was a handcuff.